Just want to know if others feel like this?

[Laugher]

Iv been broken up with my ex nearly a year. Its slightly worrying me that I still think of him so much after so long, we were only together 4 years! Im over all the terrible heart break and dark days etc..but I still think of him quite alot. Is this normal?

Also its hard to explain...Im split because even though I know we are probably not compatible in many ways and I accept the break up was for the best, I cant help feeling a very strong love for him all the same..its confusing sometimes.

Does anyone else relate to this?

[alphamale]

yes its normal

[YellowShark]

Absolutely normal. Unless it's turned into obsession then it's unhealthy. And four years with someone is a long time, hard to simply erase four years.