Sw3etdev1L Posted August 22, 2010 Share Posted August 22, 2010 When do you call next? a) you give your self importance and make her "want you" wait a week b) call next day to see how she's doing c) don't show your show until you feel like it , go along with your flow. d) the rule of three days Link to post Share on other sites
westrock Posted August 22, 2010 Share Posted August 22, 2010 It depends.. did she tell me she had a great time and would like to see me again? Or was she silent in communicating how she feels? Link to post Share on other sites
David. Posted August 22, 2010 Share Posted August 22, 2010 Depends on cultural expectations! If she's from Buenos Aires, then it's one kind of response. If she's from Boston, it's a different response! Women are not all of the same mind! Link to post Share on other sites
spiderowl Posted August 23, 2010 Share Posted August 23, 2010 Call next day or as soon as you feel the need to talk to her after that. There are three possible scenarios: - she really liked you (in which case she'll be wondering if you enjoyed the meeting as much as she did) - she thought you were nice but no real sparks (in which case, she'll be OK about hearing from you (and may even want to meet up occasionally for 'fun') but probably won't encourage setting up a meeting too quickly - she decided you're not the one (in which case she'll be polite but distant or tell you outright or be difficult to catch on the phone or will unenthusiastically agree to a meeting but just not follow through I think by calling you'll get a sense of the above and a clearer idea of where you stand. Is there any point putting yourself through three days of waiting to know? Whatever happens, you'll know whether you've found someone special or need to move on. Link to post Share on other sites
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