JacquesA.LeFrancais Posted August 24, 2010 Share Posted August 24, 2010 So, My SO said this to me last night. And followed that up with "That is not a bad thing". The context being, to make the story short, that for the short term, she's had to move back into her parent's chaotic house and our communication level and interactions levels have plummeted. She moved out 6 months ago, where we weather the storm of her living at her parents for a year before that in the chaoes and 90% of our bumps were communication issues because of her living environment. Since she moved back. I've tried to distract myself. I miss her sure, but knowing that our comms were going to suck, i've tried to stick myself in other things to keep myself distracted, because frankly i knew it was going to hurt, and does. Going from spending hours on the phone, hours in msn, and hours in skype to 1 or 2 15 min phone calls a day is a culture shock. She became indignant last night because I have basically been giving her space and waiting for her to make contact when she can. I do not exaggerate when I say that house is chaotic. And "you are the clingiest person in the world" was an exasperated statement saying that now, I basically have done a 180 from that. Last night as I was in bed, I posted something on facebook and she was upset because I didnt try to call her. It feels negative saying that...makes me feel like a clingbot or something I'm comfuzzled Link to post Share on other sites
Recommended Posts