Troubled15 Posted February 18, 2004 Share Posted February 18, 2004 hi people, my ex came round my house today and we had a really good time for those who dont no much about my problems. Im 15 and had been going out with this girl for 10 months i still love her and really want her back, before christmas we decided too breakup because she felt we were begining to start being nasty to eachother soo before it could come to that we broke it off soo we could atleast save some sort of friendship out of are realationship! im only young but i really love her and she is my first love so i havnt really experienced anyone els but i really want her. We had a really good talk towards the end of the day before she went and we spoke about how in the future we could be girlfriend and boyfriend but she told me that she thinks we should experience other people not just in ways of love but find new friends and just to get to know people like are friends in the mean time ,which i thought was fair enough. We held hands and cuddled when we spoke about stuff but she kind off steped back after a while and said that she dosnt want to start falling for me im quite confused but im trying to be quite cool bout everything and just take everyday as it comes and see what comes from there. i see her everyday at school and sometimes out i really want her back. Soo im thinking if i want her back just be myself coz she fell for it today moment.im not really to sure about what im doing and neither does she do you think im doing the right things? She is a real nice girl and she is worth it! im not really sure what im trying to get at i just really needed to type my feelings about today coz i had a real nice day with her ! thanks for listening, some feed back and some comments on this would be appreciated! Link to post Share on other sites
Arabess Posted February 18, 2004 Share Posted February 18, 2004 The disadvantage of young love is that people often times don't take it seriously. The advantage is you have a whole lifetime ahead of you to spring back from the various disappointments. What you are feeling is what everyone feels when they don't know where they stand with someone they want a relationship with. She probably does care about you a great deal. She just wants the freedom to grow and figure out what she really wants out of her life. Be her friend....and grow with her. Good Luck....I know the teen years can be excruciating!!!! Link to post Share on other sites
Author Troubled15 Posted February 18, 2004 Author Share Posted February 18, 2004 thanks for the reply, it makes alot of sense and i agree with you thanks again! xx Link to post Share on other sites
Pretteangel Posted February 20, 2004 Share Posted February 20, 2004 15? you have no business even having a relationship! Where are your parents? They allow such thing? Unbelieveable! Link to post Share on other sites
Arabess Posted February 20, 2004 Share Posted February 20, 2004 People used to get married and start families at 15. Why would it be considered too young to have serious feelings for someone else? Link to post Share on other sites
SoleMate Posted February 20, 2004 Share Posted February 20, 2004 we decided to breakup because she felt we were begining to start being nasty to each other so before it could come to that we broke it off so we could at least save some sort of friendship out of our relationship! ...she told me that she thinks we should experience other people not just in ways of love but find new friends and just to get to know people Hey, I was really happy to read both of these statements. This girl you're crazy about appears to have a head on her shoulders, which bodes well for both her and your future happiness, be you together or apart. i really want her back... Yes, I can see that. Whatever you want from her, you're more likely to get it by doing just what you said...being yourself and not getting too stressed about this. Just even developing other friendships - guy or gal - makes sense. Not to be nosy, but were you sexually involved? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Troubled15 Posted February 22, 2004 Author Share Posted February 22, 2004 Thanks solemate for the reply, we were kinda sexually involved. we did everything really apart from sex which she wasnt ready for and i had full respect for. hope to hear from u again sometime Link to post Share on other sites
Vivid_29 Posted February 22, 2004 Share Posted February 22, 2004 Originally posted by Pretteangel 15? you have no business even having a relationship! Where are your parents? They allow such thing? Unbelieveable! Who pissed in your cornflakes this morning? Give this poor kid a break, alright? Age aint nothing but a number! ~V Link to post Share on other sites
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