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[kiey]

This weekend was the BAyou Classic in New Orleans. My boyfriend left Friday and I haven't spoken to him since. Well Saturday, I went to New Orleans and happened to run into some of the guys he went with. I asked them where he was and they said in the room. I asked them what was the room number and he refused to tell me because he "claimed" to be too drunk. I told him he must have a girl up there with him, and he responded that I should trust him. The way I see it, is if he wasn't doing something he didn't have any business doing, then what was the big deal of him telling me the room number? I really would like to trust him, but I am terrified of doing so. I'm currently angry with the both of them, his friend and my boyfriend, and am not speaking to either. Am I overreacting or what?

[HBK]

Don't take it so seriously, you need to have more self confidence. You should have ignored them after you got the room number, went on and had a great weekend. Then he would have heard that you were in the same town and would have either got nervous and started asking questions to find out if you know anything. Or he may blow it off in that case I don't think anything happened. Do you trust his friends? If you have to think about it then you don't....Good Luck!

This weekend was the BAyou Classic in New Orleans. My boyfriend left Friday and I haven't spoken to him since. Well Saturday, I went to New Orleans and happened to run into some of the guys he went with. I asked them where he was and they said in the room. I asked them what was the room number and he refused to tell me because he "claimed" to be too drunk. I told him he must have a girl up there with him, and he responded that I should trust him. The way I see it, is if he wasn't doing something he didn't have any business doing, then what was the big deal of him telling me the room number? I really would like to trust him, but I am terrified of doing so. I'm currently angry with the both of them, his friend and my boyfriend, and am not speaking to either. Am I overreacting or what?

[moe]

This weekend was the BAyou Classic in New Orleans. My boyfriend left Friday and I haven't spoken to him since. Well Saturday, I went to New Orleans and happened to run into some of the guys he went with. I asked them where he was and they said in the room. I asked them what was the room number and he refused to tell me because he "claimed" to be too drunk. I told him he must have a girl up there with him, and he responded that I should trust him. The way I see it, is if he wasn't doing something he didn't have any business doing, then what was the big deal of him telling me the room number? I really would like to trust him, but I am terrified of doing so. I'm currently angry with the both of them, his friend and my boyfriend, and am not speaking to either. Am I overreacting or what?

 

Of course his friends aren't going to rat him out if he had a hoe in that room...If he was so drunk, wouldn't he want you to help take care of him??? Maybe he did want you to stay with him??? Who knows.?. If you have no proof, I'd advise you not to be too harsh on him. It seems like you two need to communicate more...Have a SERIOUS talk with that boy... Tell him exactly how you felt that night and if he shows no interest, do a replay... One night give him a taste of his own medicine... You've got to know how he would react if it was you in that room... see how he reacts and it will show exactly how he feels towards you. Sometimes guys have trouble putting on other people's shoes. Make him try on your shoes and if he realizes his wrongful ways, he should be worthy of your trust.