DinaRahmad Posted September 3, 2010 Share Posted September 3, 2010 Me and my SO are having a great relationship and everything have been going pretty well between us. We msn and video call and stuff every night and everything was pretty ordinary. But recently, actually it has been a couple of weeks that I've noticed, when we're video-calling and stuff, he always seemed busy texting someone almost every night. I haven't tried asking him who it was cause I thought I should just trust him and it's probably just a friend. But I can't help it but think what if it's not? So, am i being just insecure or should I be worried and do something about it. If I should, how? Link to post Share on other sites
CupidsPosionedArrow Posted September 3, 2010 Share Posted September 3, 2010 According to me, Me and my SO are having a great relationship and everything have been going pretty well between us. We msn and video call and stuff every night and everything to me seems like it was pretty ordinary. But recently, actually it has been a couple of weeks that I've noticed, when we're video-calling and stuff, he always seemed busy texting someone almost every night. I haven't tried asking him who it was cause I thought I should just trust him and it's probably just a friend. But I can't help it but think what if it's not? So, am i being just insecure or should I be worried and do something about it. If I should, how? When was the last time you guys last met up in the flesh? I think it's time for a house call, show some love, see what he thinks about the idea. See if the texting suddenly dies down, if it does I would be a little more suspicious and go from there. Whatever you do, don't accuse him of anything. Don't even bring it up, wait, if you really suspect something, you might just want to move ahead to the breakup stage. PS> It's my view that LDRs are fool hearty. Link to post Share on other sites
Bridgey Posted September 3, 2010 Share Posted September 3, 2010 The easiest thing you can do is simply ask him. We're all human and we all get suspicious and insecure. Don't accuse him of anything, just bring it up next time you see he's texting. It'll put your mind at ease. Link to post Share on other sites
madjac74 Posted September 3, 2010 Share Posted September 3, 2010 Well we all get texts from other people right? friends, family, coworkers. I would think he could put it away while you guys are on cam but if you cam for long periods of time maybe he can't leave a friend hanging that long. My GF is so good at texting she can text me while she's talking on the phone with other people. I cant do that for some reason. Not coordinated enough i guess. I say the next time you see him texting alot just ask him if he's is busy and has to go. Link to post Share on other sites
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