Dazreiello Posted September 3, 2010 Share Posted September 3, 2010 Hi, I'm normally a paranoid person working hard to get over my anxieties, though somethings just get stuck in my head. I've been hearing about pickup artists and how any man can have any woman and all that. just hearing more into that I nearly lost the point in relationships just a minute ago, I was asking myself if anyone I ever get into a relationship with has potential of being taken from me. This even goes for future wife. Is there? is that potential in everyone? I know for me, I was in a relationship once, and when ever I thought of myself with another person I always felt incredibly Ill, that I'd never want to be with anyone else, though in a long run I guess she didnt think the same.. never the less I just want the most honest opinion or fact, nothing just to ease my insecurities I just want the hard truth if anyone nows. Can all women be 'picked up' by someone even while in a relationship or married? Link to post Share on other sites
Joe Normal Posted September 4, 2010 Share Posted September 4, 2010 Only women who are not in love with their partners can be seduced. And the number of genuine pickup artists is very small, most are wannabes. If you are that paranoid, just date a fat or plain-looking girl who no professional seducer will want to make an effort to bed. Bear in mind that anyone can be killed in a car accident, contract cancer, or have a heart attack at any time. Life has risks no matter what you do, so you'd better get used to it. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Dazreiello Posted September 4, 2010 Author Share Posted September 4, 2010 Honestly that's incredibly helpful to hear, thanks. I will need to get over my paranoia, and well larger women seem to be gaining more appeal lately, and I'd say I am one of those who find them quite attractive, though still doesnt change that more and more people out there are experiencing the same thing but hey, thats life. Thanks. Link to post Share on other sites
Nikki Sahagin Posted September 5, 2010 Share Posted September 5, 2010 Anyone can lose anyone else because we never truly own another person, nor do we belong to anybody. I think the reality is; yes anyone COULD be taken from you by anyone or anything else, but its only a could. Likewise, you COULD be taken from anybody by somebody else. If you trust in your own judgements you will be fine. We never truly can know what will happen so don't be afraid. Link to post Share on other sites
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