After reading a lot of these threads, I've noticed

[JimmyB26]

The dumpers never delete our phone numbers, do they? We just sit there idle, get transferred from new phone to new phone. No matter how pissed they are at us, even if they're engaged, sometimes married, they'll hold on to the last number they knew we had. Very interesting.

[Iselia]

I deleted my ex's phone number about a month ago. Funny, when she got a new phone number she texted it to me. She texted me a few times after that too. I just delete the texts and continue with life. She isn't worth it if she isn't going to step up and want a life with me.

[Username37]

I don't think so. My ex told me not to contact her for the whole summer and she texted me twice.

[Trovador]

What Jimmy means is that its us dumpees the ones to make all the fuzz about moving on, even doing stupid things (like dressing down or up in case we run into our ex), while dumpers do little or nothing at all...

 

We even sign to relationship advice websites... ha ha!!!

[Cee]

I try not to keep exes that I broke up with b/c I don't want to text them in a weak moment. I keep one ex in my phone b/c he's a bad person & I don't want to accidentally pick up the phone if he contacts me.

 

When guys dump me, I sometimes don't have the strength to delete them. Recently my phone crashed and I lost a lot of numbers. That was a relief b/c I don't want to see exes names in my phone anymore.