A woman's Orgasm - Who's responsibility is it....

[controlledchaos]

ok, read it. as for length. i think that depends on how you view sex. or that particular encounter with each other. i think 30 min is acceptable. there are times when you're going to want to show more interest before hand. build it up and then things seem to happen quickly after that. then there are times you ( general you here) might want a true quicky. wham, bam, thank you ma'am kinda thing. and those can be a lot of fun too, as long as you both know it going in ;-) i think two of the biggest aides in having a healthy sex life is communication and compromise. but, i didn't really have a healthy sex life so, i could be TOTALLY way off base!

[giotto]

Communication and compromise are great, but I've found that the combination of Viagra and Rohypnol work just as well.

 

Speak for yourself... I don't need Viagra!

[giotto]

:lmao:Rohypnol, however....

 

nah, my wife is usually asleep, anyway...

[Honorable_Venerable]

i believe that if the woman wants an orgasm she needs to make that clear and she either needs to make it happen or tell her partner HOW to make it happen.

My wife does this! I have to be on top, thrust like a madman, nearly give myself heart failure and after a herculean effort get told "Is that all you can do?"

 

show him if you need to. it depends how badly she wants the orgasm i guess. i know i wanted it every time. so, that was my goal. not all women can orgasm from just penetration alone. and depending on what time of the month it is, just penetration might not work.

I've seen a figure of 30% quoted. My wife, bless her seems to have a strategy derived from the British Army in WW1 - do the same thing, over and over again, no matter how badly it went before, on the grounds that in the triumph of hope over probability, it might work next time!

 

As for showing me, from a sexual perspective, I don't think she could show someone how to pour water out of a bucket with the instructions on the bottom.

 

i cannot imagine NOT wanting an orgasm from a tongue or hands. i really can't. if i ever find myself lucky enough to have sex again, i'll take one any which way i can get one, LOL.

CC, meet my wife - we used to do those things but they are apparently not what married couples should do.

 

 

oh, and i highly recommend to all women ( especially if you have issues having orgasms) to get your hood pierced ;-) it's a lot of fun! and i'm only half joking. if you need clitoral stimulation to orgasm, this really does help A-LOT!

She'd have you marked as a slapper, straight off. Apparently only "low class" women have piercings anywhere except their earlobes:lmao:

[LittleTiger]

As for showing me, from a sexual perspective, I don't think she could show someone how to pour water out of a bucket with the instructions on the bottom.

 

:lmao::lmao:

 

Sorry for your awful situation HV, but that is just too funny!

[controlledchaos]

i really am sorry!

 

orgasms are just too much fun to NOT have them! and lots of them at that! does she ever have them? and i'm not saying you need to work harder to give her one, i'm just curious if she does have them some times?

 

low class? LOL. i am the opposite of that in every sense of the word ;-) i look and act like a typical suburban housewife ( NOT a desperate housewife, lol). the main reason i got it done is because i do like sex, and since i won't be having it again anytime soon ( and it's been over a year so far) i figured i'd make it easier for myself.........

 

i do understand where you are though. when my stbx and i were dating it was FUN! we tried all sorts of stuff and did it in different places, etc. overtime, that changed. sex became 'in the bed, before sleep.' he could go weeks to months without sex.

 

 

 

 

 

 

My wife does this! I have to be on top, thrust like a madman, nearly give myself heart failure and after a herculean effort get told "Is that all you can do?"

 

 

I've seen a figure of 30% quoted. My wife, bless her seems to have a strategy derived from the British Army in WW1 - do the same thing, over and over again, no matter how badly it went before, on the grounds that in the triumph of hope over probability, it might work next time!

 

As for showing me, from a sexual perspective, I don't think she could show someone how to pour water out of a bucket with the instructions on the bottom.

 

 

CC, meet my wife - we used to do those things but they are apparently not what married couples should do.

 

 

 

She'd have you marked as a slapper, straight off. Apparently only "low class" women have piercings anywhere except their earlobes:lmao: