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Don't ever assume that identical profiles correlates with real life compatibility or chemistry...

 

true, but I felt it in real life...like we would have been compatible had I not screwed up in his class.

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OK, having crazy thought. Keep me in check, guys. Instructor crush on on OKC who probably thinks I'm nuts because I missed a bunch of his classes last spring and ended up taking an incomplete (that I have since finished), bad idea??

And I also basically implied to him (back in April) in an email that I was getting an abortion and that was the reason for my absences, without saying it directly. That's true, btw, but it still may have made me seem "troubled" from his perspective. He gave me a C+ in the class because of my absences, by far the lowest grade I received that semester.

 

We're the same age and have a lot of common interests, and I did at least come off as smart in the class, since I actively participated in discussions.

 

I was thinking of just sending him a friendly message on the site that wasn't a come on in any way, like "funny running into you on here," or whatever. And seeing if he bites.

 

But this is probably totally nutso, right? Because in all likelihood he thinks I'm crazy?

 

Somebody tell me if it's a terrible idea, or if it's worth a shot. I mean what do I have to lose. The only thing is I might run into him now and then because we have some mutual friends.

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P, the guy I wrote this thread about, just texted me. I presume it's some sort of explanation. Now, that I had started to move on in my head, I can't bear to read it :( Blah.... should i just delete it?

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P, the guy I wrote this thread about, just texted me. I presume it's some sort of explanation. Now, that I had started to move on in my head, I can't bear to read it :( Blah.... should i just delete it?

 

So predictable. Every time I've mentally just started to move on, the one from before pops up. It's like they're all psychic.

 

Read it, it might give you a good laugh. Or help you close the door.

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P, the guy I wrote this thread about, just texted me. I presume it's some sort of explanation. Now, that I had started to move on in my head, I can't bear to read it :( Blah.... should i just delete it?

 

Awww, after 30 some pages of this thread, you HAVE to tell us what the text says...come on now... :rolleyes::laugh:

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I've read this whole thread without commenting...I would really love to know what he said before I go to sleep tonight! :)

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What if it's really bad and that's why she's not posting? I have a bad feeling...

 

No, I bet she's involved in a text-exchange and will report once it's done.

 

I just hope she doesn't invite him over, or something...

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What if it's really bad and that's why she's not posting? I have a bad feeling...

 

I have the reverse feeling...that he's going to say his phone was broken or some such and be totally friendly.

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Lol! you guys aren't goin gto believe this, here's what he wrote:

 

hey, sorry i've been awol. it's been a busy weekend i had a nice time too; if you want to get together again just let me know when/where!

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I have the reverse feeling...that he's going to say his phone was broken or some such and be totally friendly.

 

AND his computer...? Perhaps a coma...?

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in other news my psycho roommate and her boyfriend are having a shouting and throwing things match upstairs right above my room, and it's 2:30 am here. :rolleyes:

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lol, what were you expecting?

 

Actually, I guess that would be the only reasonable thing he could text you back with...so he would be hella lame no matter what he texted you...:rolleyes:

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Actually, I guess that would be the only reasonable thing he could text you back with...so he would be hella lame no matter what he texted you...:rolleyes:

 

you mean him being in a coma would be the only reasonable thing?

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