Overheard bf talking about other girls to his buddies....

[SpanksTheMonkey]

Do people here honestly think women don't talk the same way amongst themselve?

 

I can honestly say I've never had that type of conversation with any of my past friends no..

[SpanksTheMonkey]

Guy says to his male friends that he got a blowjob from his ex's best friend.

 

10% chance that it ever even happened.

 

Stop reacting to guy talk that isn't any of your business. You should operate based on how he treats you.

 

Yeah she should def stick her head in the sand until he actually cheats on HER as well like I said the man talk OK until the cheating came into it thats not ok by a country mile! And its every bit her business to know who she is truly dating and that goes for him as well I would give the same advice if it was vice versa..

[atlnay]

Do people here honestly think women don't talk the same way amongst themselve?[/QUote] I'll concur with you. In varying degrees since high school my female friends & I have talked as bawdy as the boys. Plus the number 1 chick show, SATC had TONS of female sex talk. Even my mom said reminded her of some convos her & her friends had back in her heydays. Now I have women friends from late 20s thru 40s, who talk blunt when the fellas aren't around. We may not do it as often as men and we tend not exagerrate as much, but yea, some women do talk that way.

[Ruby Slippers]

I also wish there more women like you instead of the ones who high five each other about it and act like they are empowered feminists.

Thanks. Me, too. Women who do that are stupid.

[Anela]

I also wish there more women like you instead of the ones who high five each other about it and act like they are empowered feminists.

 

I don't know any women who do this.

 

To the OP: I would feel the same way.

[loverofloveandstuff]

 

Stop reacting to guy talk that isn't any of your business. You should operate based on how he treats you.

 

Isn't any of her business? You've gotta be kidding.

[make me believe]

This "guy talk" excuse is total bullsh*t. Carhill is right - SOME guys talk like this about women; not all. The immature ones do. IMO it's incredibly disrespectful to talk about other people like that when you are in a relationship. It would be one thing if your BF pulled out the pictures, his friend commented on how hot the two girls were, and your BF agreed they were good-looking in a casual manner. That's fine. But for him to go on & on about it & talk about what he wanted to do to them & how they aroused him is so disrespectful and gross. And the stuff about him cheating on his ex is even worse.

 

If I were you, I would bring it up. Just tell him exactly what happened -- you were on your way over with food and heard his immature, crass conversation through the open window. Decide for yourself if you want to be with a guy who talks like that when he is in a relationship, who cheated on his ex, and who lied to you about the cheating when you asked him about it. You did NOTHING wrong in this situation, so I think you should confront him about it.