would be appreciated greatly.

[bowenmagic]

Hey Guys,

 

I would really appreciate everyone's comments/opinions on my situation as I am really unsure on how to go about things at the moment. Well basically I am really attracted to this girl (a bit of a love at first sight thing). The tricky part is that she doesn't know that I exist because she works at a three store (mobile) at a local shopping centre I go to all the time. I have passed that store on numerous occasions just so that I can have a glimpse of her. Because I am a shy guy and really not the type to suddenly go up to a random girl and work up a super conversation with them. And the thing is I also saw her at another shop before sitting with a guy, regardless if he was her boyfriend or not I would still go for her because I haven't been so attracted to a girl like her before.

 

But what should I do? I have got no idea what to do. Even if it to get acquainted with her and then go from there? Please help and opinions would be greatly appreciated. Cheers.

[Fouts]

Sorry, but you're going to have to approach her if you want to see if there's some spark there. You'll have to ditch the shy guy at least for awhile and go up and start a conversation.

[Confused100]

Sorry, but you're going to have to approach her if you want to see if there's some spark there. You'll have to ditch the shy guy at least for awhile and go up and start a conversation.

 

Correct. Don't worry about whether she has a boyfriend.

 

Go up to her, start a conversation, let it flow naturally--try using environmental cues--and flirt (if you really need to... come up with some conversational topics beforehand). Then ask her out on a date. It's really hard when you're shy, I know. I have a difficult time as well. But, the only way it's going to work is if you get out of your comfort zone a bit.

 

Best of luck.