wing81 Posted February 23, 2004 Share Posted February 23, 2004 I'm mainly just ranting but I would appreciate other people's point of views and suggestions. To start off I am 22 years old. I just graduated from college and recenty my first girlfriend and I broke up after 2 1/2 years. Life has really seemed to stall on me the past few months. I'm beginning to feel useless and stuck. I have sent out more resumes than I can count and have only gotten one response. It has been both depressing and frustrating. I feel like I'm standing still while everyone else goes zooming by. A lot of this has also led to feeling lonely. Since I'm not working and no longer have classes, I have more time on my hands than I know what to do with. I try to spend time with different friends but I am starting to find that I feel less and less satisfied by spending time with them. I feel bored again very shortly after being around them. I would love to be in another relationship so I can share my time and life with someone else, also feel like I have a purpose. Feeling like I have no purpose right now has really hurt the confidence. There is no reason for me not to have confidence other than that. I have never heard anyone say anthing horrible about me. I'm just never sure how to approach a woman and start up a conversation. I think I'm also a little scared, but more scared that they might say yes rather than no. I just don't know what to do. I wish I could just get up and move and start over in someplace new but I want to know that I can support myself their first. Link to post Share on other sites
moimeme Posted February 23, 2004 Share Posted February 23, 2004 If it's purpose you're looking for, why not try some volunteer work for charities? Often, the connections you make and experience you get can lead to jobs, plus you get the benefit of having something worthwhile to do with your time while you hunt for work. Link to post Share on other sites
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