Xanga

[Iselia]

A few days ago I noticed my ex kept looking at my xanga/blogs and it really made me upset. All these questions popped in my head. Does she still care about me? Is she missing me? Is life at college not as great as she thought? It's almost been NC for a month. Is there a reason why she's looking at my site? I hadn't even updated it in months, and she kept looking at the homepage, nothing more. I ended up saving all my blogs on Word and deleting my Xanga site (which I actually really, really didn't want to do). It was/is so painful to know that she is still a part of my life without her committment.

[ShannonMI]

A few days ago I noticed my ex kept looking at my xanga/blogs and it really made me upset. All these questions popped in my head. Does she still care about me? Is she missing me? Is life at college not as great as she thought? It's almost been NC for a month. Is there a reason why she's looking at my site? I hadn't even updated it in months, and she kept looking at the homepage, nothing more. I ended up saving all my blogs on Word and deleting my Xanga site (which I actually really, really didn't want to do). It was/is so painful to know that she is still a part of my life without her committment.

 

Maybe she's just checking up on you. What exactly is xanga? It's a blog? Have you blogged about your relationship with her? Maybe she's looking to see if you've posted anything about your breakup. Who knows. Exes are such a**holes. UGH:rolleyes:

[Iselia]

Maybe she's just checking up on you. What exactly is xanga? It's a blog? Have you blogged about your relationship with her? Maybe she's looking to see if you've posted anything about your breakup. Who knows. Exes are such a**holes. UGH:rolleyes:

 

Yes it's a blog site. I did blog a little about our breakup, but I deleted those a while ago. She was looking at my Xanga then too and actually left comments then. But it's been since July since I've updated my public blogs. I have no idea why she'd keep looking at it if nothing new has been up in a while; especially since she's was subscribed to me and could see when/if I posted something new. I have a feeling that she is just checking up on me and it's really upsetting me.

[Username37]

A few days ago I noticed my ex kept looking at my xanga/blogs and it really made me upset. All these questions popped in my head. Does she still care about me? Is she missing me? Is life at college not as great as she thought? It's almost been NC for a month. Is there a reason why she's looking at my site? I hadn't even updated it in months, and she kept looking at the homepage, nothing more. I ended up saving all my blogs on Word and deleting my Xanga site (which I actually really, really didn't want to do). It was/is so painful to know that she is still a part of my life without her committment.

 

She's checking up on you. You're on NC and sometimes, those thoughts of "how is he/she doing?" pops up. I mean cmon, you were a big part of her life ya know? She's probably waiting for you to post something about the break up or something, maybe to get an ego boost. And I get you. I don't want my ex to be in my life without her commitment, but they'll find there ways. I have a feeling she checks my FB and tumblr. Whatever, her problem not mine.

[Iselia]

She's checking up on you. You're on NC and sometimes, those thoughts of "how is he/she doing?" pops up. I mean cmon, you were a big part of her life ya know? She's probably waiting for you to post something about the break up or something, maybe to get an ego boost. And I get you. I don't want my ex to be in my life without her commitment, but they'll find there ways. I have a feeling she checks my FB and tumblr. Whatever, her problem not mine.

 

I wasn't big enough to keep in her life though, and that's what matters. I wish she'd f*ck off and leave me alone. She f*cking dumped me and needs to figure out I'm not a part of her life anymore in any shape. I'd never play second fiddle to someone else in her life. I so want to tell her @ss off right now, but I know any better.

[Username37]

I wasn't big enough to keep in her life though, and that's what matters. I wish she'd f*ck off and leave me alone. She f*cking dumped me and needs to figure out I'm not a part of her life anymore in any shape. I'd never play second fiddle to someone else in her life. I so want to tell her @ss off right now, but I know any better.

 

Exactly. They throw us away and they still think they can be apart of our lives while we can't be apart of theirs. Selfish bitches they are. Don't let yourself be her second choice, because you'll always be it.

 

I feel ya, I want to contact her and just yell at her, but what will that do ya know besides cause more drama. And that my friend is the last thing you need.