HopeLove Posted September 15, 2010 Share Posted September 15, 2010 I'm thinking I might never stop loving him. In a way is a relief because it takes off the pressure I should stop loving him and move on. On the other hand is a bit sad because although I love him I'm not allowed to be with him. What do you think about? Do you think you'll stop loving your ex? What feelings do you feel? Link to post Share on other sites
TaraMaiden Posted September 15, 2010 Share Posted September 15, 2010 Yeah, don't worry, it wears off in time. I mean, you may always have good feelings of nostalgia about him, but in the long run, they'll become pale and distant...... Link to post Share on other sites
Ajax Posted September 15, 2010 Share Posted September 15, 2010 No I don't think I'll ever stop loving my ex. But I do think that in time the nature of that love will change. Personally I want a second chance with mine, but if that doesn't happen I'm sure that in time I'll stop loving her romantically and begin to love her as someone who was important in my life. For me, my relationship with my ex was the best I've ever had. I never loved anyone as passionately or deeply as I did (do) her. Even if that fades though, I will still love her. I will love that she was able to bring those feelings out of me. And I will love her because while she was still with me, my life was that much more full. It is because of her that I know I can love in the first place. And though I can't see myself with anyone else right now, knowing that I'm capable of love gives me hope that one day I'll feel it again with someone who feels it for me. Link to post Share on other sites
ShannonMI Posted September 15, 2010 Share Posted September 15, 2010 I'm thinking I might never stop loving him. In a way is a relief because it takes off the pressure I should stop loving him and move on. On the other hand is a bit sad because although I love him I'm not allowed to be with him. What do you think about? Do you think you'll stop loving your ex? What feelings do you feel? I will never stop loving who my ex USED to be. He has changed and I don't love/like who he has become. He's a different person now. When I first met him 8 years ago, he was a sweet, loving, considerate guy. Now, not so much. It makes me sad, but people change I suppose. Link to post Share on other sites
benB Posted September 15, 2010 Share Posted September 15, 2010 I will never stop loving who my ex USED to be. He has changed and I don't love/like who he has become. He's a different person now. When I first met him 8 years ago, he was a sweet, loving, considerate guy. Now, not so much. It makes me sad, but people change I suppose. I feel the same way about my ex, man I miss the old her. sigh Link to post Share on other sites
ShannonMI Posted September 15, 2010 Share Posted September 15, 2010 I feel the same way about my ex, man I miss the old her. sigh Yep, doesn't it suck? Some people change for the worse, not the better. I stayed the same through out the 8 years I was with my ex. It's too bad he changed and it's too bad he changed into a cheating piece of sh*t. Link to post Share on other sites
LoveTNT Posted September 15, 2010 Share Posted September 15, 2010 I love him for the essence of who he truly is, a good person, but I love myself and I can't continue loving someone in a romantic/life partner way if I'm not getting it back in return. People are just in love with the past, what it use to be, That's all. It's pointless. Wish them well and move on. If it's meant to be it will be. But you CANNOT sit around and wait. I know the hurt, I've felt it tear me up inside, and I don't want to live like that anymore.. I appreciate the lesson, it's brought me closer to the light. Crying in the darkness has brought me closer to the light. Pick yourself up. Love yourself first. Link to post Share on other sites
PegNosePete Posted September 16, 2010 Share Posted September 16, 2010 I love him for the essence of who he truly is, a good person "It's not who you are underneath, it's what you do that defines you" -- Batman Begins Link to post Share on other sites
AlwaYs257 Posted September 17, 2010 Share Posted September 17, 2010 I hear ya, Back in school,when we were about 15,when all the girls were worrying about make up,clothes,guys,weight and how they looked,she stayed herself,she was caring and loving,and I saw something there that others did'nt,now in college and she's just going through that phase where she thinks other guys notice her,cuts me up inside,coz no one knows her like I do,and I know she's so much better than this. But yeah I doubt you can ever fall outta love with someone who ment so much to you,they helped shape you in a way,and I always believed you come across that person when you needed each other the most. Link to post Share on other sites
Leandro Posted September 17, 2010 Share Posted September 17, 2010 Yea I don't know why they change. My ex use to be a very shy, smart, beautiful girl. I raised her self-esteem like crazy. When it was high enough she left me for someone else. She changed. She broke out of her shell. She ignores me when I made her who she is today. With out me she could probably be that low self-esteem girl. I never changed once during the relationship. I'm the same person I was when I was 15 and now I'm 20. I miss the OLD her. I'm always going to love the OLD her. Link to post Share on other sites
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