greyskies Posted February 23, 2004 Share Posted February 23, 2004 Well, leave it to me to think that I was getting that second chance. Ha! He was just really board since his friend got a new job. And now he is suppose to start working for the same people. I'm kind of tripping out because his friend was incarcerated when we got together, he insisted that we be the ones who sent him money and packages and parole clothes. He wrote him faithfully and picked him up when he was released. And bout two weeks later broke up with me. And when he was not at home he was with him at his house or vice verca. I find this strange and then he spends that week with me here and as soon as he left started being cold and mean again. Now he is here sleeping in my bed and holds me tight and close (no sex). I am so confused its driving me crazy. I am afraid to ask him about his intentions because I know if I'm out of line he will say hurtful things to me. What should I do? Any good advice? Link to post Share on other sites
GiveAndTake Posted February 23, 2004 Share Posted February 23, 2004 Holding you close and not having sex is his preference? Hanging with his male friend instead of you is his preference? Did you consider the possibility that he is gay? Link to post Share on other sites
corythosaurus Posted February 23, 2004 Share Posted February 23, 2004 Sounds like he is torn between two lives. One with you, and one with his old "running mate." If the two worlds can't coexist, then he or you is gonna have to make the choice. Link to post Share on other sites
Author greyskies Posted February 23, 2004 Author Share Posted February 23, 2004 Now I'm really tripping you mean he could be gay or bi and that he may choose his friend whom is old enough to be his father over the woman he suppose to love? Wow men are stranger than I thought. I would never choose anyone over my partner not even family. I cant imagine ever getting married ever if I cant find a partnerwho feels for me as I do him. I dont think there is anyone out there for me then. I have been hoping to find someone who believes instead of breaking up after every disagreement that we sit down and talk it out and come to an agreement that will make each one of us happy. You know give alittle to me and I give a little to you. I am very selfless and so I think that isnt such a good thing because everyone take me for granted. Man I really upset now I am confused as hell and feel like Im gonna feel this pain forever. Link to post Share on other sites
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