carla Posted February 24, 2004 Share Posted February 24, 2004 OK All you romantic guys, I know that there is such a thing, anyway if a lady was to plan your dream date what would it be? Link to post Share on other sites
Darkangelism Posted February 24, 2004 Share Posted February 24, 2004 Hmmm, any certain time limits? I would like a nice dinner, either cooked by the girl or at a nice restruant. Then a nice walk, then we go back and snuggle for awhile, then we go to bed and have fun. What a nice fantasy, never gonna happen, l, but fun nevertheless. Link to post Share on other sites
Author carla Posted February 24, 2004 Author Share Posted February 24, 2004 It'll happen. Your time just hasn't come yet, but it will. Link to post Share on other sites
faux Posted February 24, 2004 Share Posted February 24, 2004 Nothing too fancy. Perhaps a nice dinner at a decent restaurant. Italian sounds good. I like quiet lighting and calm atmospheres. I'm most talkative in such a setting, the idea that we would be utterly entranced in one another's dialogue is very appealing to me. Afterward, walking outside, hand in hand in the cool evening, just feeling a deep sense of connection sounds nice. I would want to say a lot and be listened to if I were being taken out (Even though I am the guy.) I like being paid attention to as well, and if the girl was going to walk up to me and give me a hug, and perhaps a soft kiss I would feel so elated I might not be able to gather the words to express it. Cuddling, talking, and wherever that might lead to would be a wonderful finale. Who needs the movies when you have good conversation and the light of candles playing on the ceiling? And I mentioned being paid attention to before... Nothing gives me more confidence, turns me on more than to be speaking and having that special someone watching me so intently. A passionate end to the evening would be truly blissful, followed by deep dreams, sleeping with my lover embracing me... It might be too much to ask for, but the few precious times something similar has happened to me I cherish in my memory forever. I do realize that the more decent Italian places can be a bit expensive, but finding even just the right quiet cafe, or even pizza shop can provide the right setting. Link to post Share on other sites
Benedict Posted February 25, 2004 Share Posted February 25, 2004 I have always told my wife that for me, it is not necessarily the activity, but the company that is important to me. But, keeping to the spirit of your question... Our relationship started out with us working out together. We still share that, whether it is lifting or running. So, I would start there. Then on to any reasonably nice restaurant we have here in Chicago - we have many, and I like to try new ones. Maybe after that to Pops for champagne, or the Green Mill for some jazz. The most important aspect for me in all of this is that we are where we can talk - a lot - and not be distracted by kids, phone, business (we both make a living at something which requires our availability at almost all hours and days ), or other "concerns". Just to be able to relax and be together. Of course I would be lying to say that my ideal date wouldn't end with us making love ... Link to post Share on other sites
UCFKevin Posted February 25, 2004 Share Posted February 25, 2004 Making out while skydiving. Link to post Share on other sites
jmargel Posted February 25, 2004 Share Posted February 25, 2004 If she made dinner, and just did the little things, that's what counts. I'm a huge animal lover so if it was during the day, horseback riding would be a definite plus. Going to the movies would be a bummer because I would want to talk to the person I'm with, not watch a movie. Amusement parks at night are also a bonus, and someone who just smiles alot, loves life and who is open about everything. You know when you are with the right person when you look at your watch and can't believe how fast the time went by. Oh, and the kissing part. Only do it a little. You need some mystery, plus shoving your tongue down my throat on the first date is going to give me a bad impression. I'm just old fashion that way though. Link to post Share on other sites
moimeme Posted February 25, 2004 Share Posted February 25, 2004 Making out while skydiving A whole other chapter of the mile-high club! Link to post Share on other sites
Author carla Posted February 25, 2004 Author Share Posted February 25, 2004 Thanks Guys that was enlightening. It's nice to hear a guys point of view of their romantic dream date. We always hear what women want, and contrary to popular belief their are guys out their that are real romantics and this post proves it. Well Kevin when I make out I like to think that I'm reaching for the sky not falling from the sky. LOL Link to post Share on other sites
reasontosigh Posted February 25, 2004 Share Posted February 25, 2004 Maybe Kevin's idea is that you'll be falling for him - literally! Link to post Share on other sites
Tony T Posted February 25, 2004 Share Posted February 25, 2004 Dream dates aren't planned, they just happen. If you're doing something with someone you care about, it's a dream no matter what you're doing...even if it's not an official date. You can never tell a dream how to unfold. They simply can't be planned. A dream date can happen at anytime given the right person. If you're with the right person, every date with them is a dream....simple as that! Link to post Share on other sites
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