newguyhere Posted September 20, 2010 Share Posted September 20, 2010 I miss the touch of a woman, my ex girlfriends touch to be exact. I miss the smell of her hair, her smooth skin. I miss her soft lips and her warm body. I miss how she would fall asleep in my arms and cuddle tight against my chest. I miss the taste of her kiss and how she would tuck her toes under my legs because they were cold. I miss walking into her room and seeing her cuddled up with a teddy bear I gave her. I miss holding her face in my hands. I had it all... and I lost everything. I am doing so good with getting over her and moving on, but today is one of those days that seem like the relationship could have ended yesterday. Link to post Share on other sites
Sonolumino Posted September 20, 2010 Share Posted September 20, 2010 Let the pain happen, examine it, feel it, understand it. Then let it go. I feel exactly the same way. Just let it happen and it will all pass. Getting through the pain makes you stronger. Link to post Share on other sites
CM2009 Posted September 20, 2010 Share Posted September 20, 2010 Trust me I've been there, it'll pass over time. Be patient!! Link to post Share on other sites
Div Posted September 20, 2010 Share Posted September 20, 2010 Notice how every guy on here can say similar things about their ex's. She's not the only one Link to post Share on other sites
smk Posted September 20, 2010 Share Posted September 20, 2010 I miss the touch of a woman, my ex girlfriends touch to be exact. I miss the smell of her hair, her smooth skin. I miss her soft lips and her warm body. I miss how she would fall asleep in my arms and cuddle tight against my chest. I miss the taste of her kiss and how she would tuck her toes under my legs because they were cold. I miss walking into her room and seeing her cuddled up with a teddy bear I gave her. I miss holding her face in my hands. I had it all... and I lost everything. I am doing so good with getting over her and moving on, but today is one of those days that seem like the relationship could have ended yesterday. Hey dude, Wow it's almost as if you are in my head. I am 3 months into the break and on NC yet I have moments where I truly miss all the things you pointed out. I have gone out, met other women, even attempted a couple of ONS yet can't bring myself to go through with it all the way simply because it's not my ex... I still keep on looking for similarities to her, even though now I know that she is no longer the same person I still can't seem to fully let go... My solution to all this is to to just keep on moving along the path and hopefully over time things will change... The last few days have been pretty crap for me, lots of emotional break downs, cried quite a bit (heck I cried to am episode of how I met your mother) that's gotta be pretty messed up... Anyways be strong and just keep on trudging along and sooner rather than later things will change and you will stop missing that touch... Link to post Share on other sites
PegNosePete Posted September 20, 2010 Share Posted September 20, 2010 Yeah I miss all those things too. But there are many other things, that I don't miss. Her f#cking other guys for example. And phoning her mum for an hour every day (seriously codependent). And spending way above her means on clothes. And doing far less than her share of the housework. And plenty of other things that in retrospect were bad, but I couldn't see at the time. Concentrate on the things you didn't like rather than obsessing on the things you did. And hey smk, long time no see again, how's it going Link to post Share on other sites
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