Wife had 3rd affair w/ boss…and now she wants me to take her back!

[John Michael Kane]

Glad you dumped the trash in the dumpster.

[fltc]

And by the way I think she is still sleeping with her boss.

 

You MUST tell his wife!

[rafallus]

Well, today is one year ago that we signed the agreements to settle out of court. It did not quite go that way but I am happy to report that even after a 9-month delay and a court hearing, I prevailed. I retained primary custody of our two boys and the divorce is now final. The patience and legal waiting paid off.

 

The hearing was quite telling in that she tried to say how I am a bad father and other things. My attorney and I were well prepared with vast amounts of evidence and two PIs in the back of the court room ready to testify. In the end, we did not need any of it and I did not even testify. Everything was decided on her testimony and cross-examination alone.

 

Weirdly, she contacted me a few days after the final divorce hearing and wanted to know if I would go to counseling with her because as she put it, "It would be good for us and she believes there is animosity between us." Wow! Seriously? After 3 affairs; an abortion; making false allegations; filing a motion making me out to be a terrible husband who forced her out of the house; filing a counter-suit suing me for divorce, alimony, full custody, and child support; alleging fraud, blackmail, and coercion; and then taking the stand and saying I am a bad father? Now she thinks we'll just be friends? Double Wow! Good luck to the next guy she gets her hooks into...

 

And by the way I think she is still sleeping with her boss.

 

Anyway, I am glad the painful and arduous event is finally over and thank you for all the comments and advice.

 

Her testimony dug her own grave? Boy, that is one insane woman. She is fuelled by fleeting emotions and nothing she says can be taken at face value.

[Binster]

You got the best tevenge of all on her boss---He gets her.

[In Like Flynn]

Why didn't you expose to work or his wife?

[robf1971]

Well, today is one year ago that we signed the agreements to settle out of court. It did not quite go that way but I am happy to report that even after a 9-month delay and a court hearing, I prevailed. I retained primary custody of our two boys and the divorce is now final. The patience and legal waiting paid off.

 

The hearing was quite telling in that she tried to say how I am a bad father and other things. My attorney and I were well prepared with vast amounts of evidence and two PIs in the back of the court room ready to testify. In the end, we did not need any of it and I did not even testify. Everything was decided on her testimony and cross-examination alone.

 

Weirdly, she contacted me a few days after the final divorce hearing and wanted to know if I would go to counseling with her because as she put it, "It would be good for us and she believes there is animosity between us." Wow! Seriously? After 3 affairs; an abortion; making false allegations; filing a motion making me out to be a terrible husband who forced her out of the house; filing a counter-suit suing me for divorce, alimony, full custody, and child support; alleging fraud, blackmail, and coercion; and then taking the stand and saying I am a bad father? Now she thinks we'll just be friends? Double Wow! Good luck to the next guy she gets her hooks into...

 

And by the way I think she is still sleeping with her boss.

 

Anyway, I am glad the painful and arduous event is finally over and thank you for all the comments and advice.

 

Lol her sense of entitlement is amazing.

 

They always have some screwed up fantasy of remaining friends. No point in wasting anymore time trying to expose etc, you've prevailed. Let her sink in her own sh*t.

[fltc]

No point in wasting anymore time trying to expose etc,

 

Disagree, there's another involved here and I believe you MUST tell her boss's wife, she needs to know, PLEASE TELL HER!

[Tenacity]

Well, today is one year ago that we signed the agreements to settle out of court. It did not quite go that way but I am happy to report that even after a 9-month delay and a court hearing, I prevailed. I retained primary custody of our two boys and the divorce is now final. The patience and legal waiting paid off.

 

The hearing was quite telling in that she tried to say how I am a bad father and other things. My attorney and I were well prepared with vast amounts of evidence and two PIs in the back of the court room ready to testify. In the end, we did not need any of it and I did not even testify. Everything was decided on her testimony and cross-examination alone.

 

Weirdly, she contacted me a few days after the final divorce hearing and wanted to know if I would go to counseling with her because as she put it, "It would be good for us and she believes there is animosity between us." Wow! Seriously? After 3 affairs; an abortion; making false allegations; filing a motion making me out to be a terrible husband who forced her out of the house; filing a counter-suit suing me for divorce, alimony, full custody, and child support; alleging fraud, blackmail, and coercion; and then taking the stand and saying I am a bad father? Now she thinks we'll just be friends? Double Wow! Good luck to the next guy she gets her hooks into...

 

And by the way I think she is still sleeping with her boss.

 

Anyway, I am glad the painful and arduous event is finally over and thank you for all the comments and advice.

 

Wow. Just wow.

 

I am so sorry for what you have been through. But HUGE kudos to you, and you did the right thing for you and for your kids.

 

You will be SO much better off without this nonstop chaos and pain in your life. You will find someone who will give you the love, respect, and life partnership you deserve. You are clearly a very articulate and intelligent person. I wish you the very best.