Nicole Posted November 30, 1998 Share Posted November 30, 1998 Can someone give me some advice? I'm involved in a extra marital affair. I feel like I'm 16 all over again--though in reality I'm 31. My life was full of hurt and loneliness until I met a wonderful, loving and compassionate man whom I deeply adore. We are falling in love and don't know what to do. He is married too and going through a divorce. Our morals/religious beliefs are telling us this is wrong but we are finding it harder and harder to resist each other. My marriage was/is going no where. He won't admit there is a problem and refuses to talk or attend counselling. What should I do?? Nicole Link to post Share on other sites
moe Posted November 30, 1998 Share Posted November 30, 1998 Can someone give me some advice? I'm involved in a extra marital affair. I feel like I'm 16 all over again--though in reality I'm 31. My life was full of hurt and loneliness until I met a wonderful, loving and compassionate man whom I deeply adore. We are falling in love and don't know what to do. He is married too and going through a divorce. Our morals/religious beliefs are telling us this is wrong but we are finding it harder and harder to resist each other. My marriage was/is going no where. He won't admit there is a problem and refuses to talk or attend counselling. What should I do?? Nicole Even though I've never been in a marriage myself, I do love someone very deeply. Now, if you share the same kind of love that I do with my boyfriend, nothing will keep you away from him...Don't worry about morals and just follow your heart. If you're not happy with your other guy, he's not treating you right. Just because you're married doesn't mean you can't be happy. I'm happy for you...AND YOU SHOULD FEEL GREAT!!! Link to post Share on other sites
Cookie Posted November 30, 1998 Share Posted November 30, 1998 Actually, I'm in a same situation...well, I'm not married but he is. It's sad, but the only advice I can give you is to discard all expectations and just enjoy the love you guys are sharing right now. Who knows, things might work out, but they might not as well...the only thing that is driving you crazy is your expectation of what will become of this developing relationship, isn't it? If you don't expect anything out of it, at least you will be able to treasure every moment you have with the guy. Can someone give me some advice? I'm involved in a extra marital affair. I feel like I'm 16 all over again--though in reality I'm 31. My life was full of hurt and loneliness until I met a wonderful, loving and compassionate man whom I deeply adore. We are falling in love and don't know what to do. He is married too and going through a divorce. Our morals/religious beliefs are telling us this is wrong but we are finding it harder and harder to resist each other. My marriage was/is going no where. He won't admit there is a problem and refuses to talk or attend counselling. What should I do?? Nicole Link to post Share on other sites
CHASE Posted December 3, 1998 Share Posted December 3, 1998 IF YOU FEEL THAT STRONGLY ABOUT THE MAN YOUR WITH COOL... BUT THE SMART THING TO DO MIGHT BE JUST TO GET OUT OF THE RELATIONSHIP YOUR IN AND NOT INSTANTLY TIE YOURSELF DOWN TO ANOTHER PERSON. IF YOU NEED SPACE GREAT BUT DONNT Link to post Share on other sites
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