avaya Posted September 21, 2010 Share Posted September 21, 2010 Hi all, this is my first time posting this and hope i can find some helps and advises for my issue. Any comment and inputs are most welcome! Im asian and having swedish bf living in same city. Weve been together for less than a year and i love him so much. Like other asian girls, or women cos im at my late 20s, i want to get married. Most of my friends are married already. But my bf and i seldom to meet, its like around once every 2 weeks or even a month! I was quite frustrated before and hv complained to him many many times. His reason is bcos he is always busy, well he works in big company and many times when i come to his place, he always works eventho just a bit. I still love him and i know he loves me too. But maybe marriage is still something not for now for him, while for me, if possible i would do it next week! I never talk abt this marriage thing to him, im afraid this will just scare him. The biggest concern ive been facing these recent months is my willing to move abroad. Last year i had thought tat i would move somewhere in Aussie or US, but since i hv to stay in my country for some other reason for a while, so i stayed. And not expected, i met this swedish n fell into him. So ive been thinking, confused between stay here with my bf who is always busy and has no time for me, but im in love, or move abroad and start all over again. Im afraid if i leave him, i will regret and will just feel lonely in foreign country. Any thoughts please? Thanks! Link to post Share on other sites
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