ShotGun Posted September 21, 2010 Share Posted September 21, 2010 (edited) Hello:) Tomorrow he will come to my place and we will talk about what happened in the relationship...on his request. Any idea or opinions on how to proceed? I have a pretty good idea about which questions I need to ask him about, but there's always room for a second opinion. What would you guys asked him about? Here's the background rapsheet...I'll try make it brief. He, 36, me 39 met at an online dating service june 2009. We have talked extensively on chat, sharing quite sensitive information, up to the point where he says "You're probably one of the people that knows me best". My main frustration is that he has been running hot/cold. Until I just couldn't take it anymore and dumped him in a letter 4 weeks ago, initiating NC. I'm only human, and in a vulnerable moment I said "hi". He stated that he got upset that I dumped him just like that and that he wished we could "talk about the relationship". Also saying stuff like: "It didn't hit on me until after you left, that it was over"..."If you got time to do just a sleepover, you're welcome. I'd like to sleep in spoons with you"...bla-bla-bla what a wonderful woman I am...ya know the drill. There is no doubt in my mind that there are mutual feelings for both of us. . He txted me on his own initiative yesterday and we agreed to meet on wednesday. And it seems, right now, that he wants a reconciliation. If there's gonna be one, how can I make it on my terms? Should I even trust his sweet words? Words are cheap, actions talk louder than words! All I want is the fun, warmth and security any woman gets from the man who cherishes her. Suffice to say I haven't shared "everything", not because I don't want to, but I don't wanna bore you guys with all the details. If there is any further infomation needed, I'll provide it, hehe:) Edited September 21, 2010 by ShotGun Link to post Share on other sites
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