pandagirl Posted October 4, 2010 Share Posted October 4, 2010 (edited) Kid, I've got to tell you, you have got to let go of the hurt. Or at least try to. And I PROMISE, it will stop hurting one day, but you have to stop exerting so much energy into what she's doing/thinking. Because you have to start believe in yourself, and her actions and thoughts have NO REFLECTION on your worth or how lovable you are. Believe me, I understand pain and suffering. It sucks. It's painful. And it seems like it will never go away. But it will little by little if you let it go. Who the hell cares if she's dating some guy? I'm sure she has good qualities like EVERY OTHER PERSON on this planet, but really? She's just a girl. There's probably a few million ladies out there who are cooler, more attractive and more worthy of your affections. That being said, it's OKAY to be sad and miss the person. I miss my ex very, very much, to the point of tears. But I believe that I am awesome and just because he isn't calling or asking for me back, doesn't diminish the fact that I'm a great person. If my ex is with someone else right now, it would really hurt, but oh well. Maybe it's just my ego talking, but he won't find anyone better than me. Edited October 4, 2010 by pandagirl Link to post Share on other sites
Author Username37 Posted October 5, 2010 Author Share Posted October 5, 2010 Update on me. So I see my ex and her new boy once in a while. It stings a little bit, but the pain goes away after a while. She's still on my mind and everything but not as much as the beginning. My ex told our mutual friend "not to have high expectations" for their relationship. So I guess they're just using each other... I've been eying another girl. Problem is, I don't want her to be a rebound ya know? Because I really care about her and she's actually one of my best friends. And the funny thing is, my ex HATES this girl because while my ex and I were going out, she thought I was "cheating" on her with her. So insecure....(for the record, I'm not chasing her because I want to send a message to my ex or anything) She shows so many signs that she likes me, and I pretty much show signs too and everyone pretty much thinks we're perfect for each other. Link to post Share on other sites
silic0ntoad Posted October 5, 2010 Share Posted October 5, 2010 I would pay no heed to the "Hopes" comment. Look bro, I know it's hard, but it's time to refocus your energy. All this digging is doing is prying open your wounds. Link to post Share on other sites
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