why does he do this

[flowerlotus]

I just found out my husband of 10 year has been cheating on me with a younger woman. He met her over Ashleymadison.com

I saw the text messages on his phone one day and found the missing credit card statements in his office garbage can. I‘m so torn right now. I don‘t know what to do.

[Dexter Morgan]

I just found out my husband of 10 year has been cheating on me with a younger woman. He met her over Ashleymadison.com

I saw the text messages on his phone one day and found the missing credit card statements in his office garbage can. I‘m so torn right now. I don‘t know what to do.

 

divorce him and hit him where it hurts....by taking half his retirement, half the marital assets, and if you have kids, get custody and child support.

 

that is if this is what you are considering, and its the way I'd go.

 

Because unless you can handle the fact that you are married to a cheating bastard, you will have to consider divorce.

 

And if you divorce him, hope he hooks up with this younger woman. She will better deal him later on down the road and he'll be crying in his beer.

 

What is it about men that go for much younger women and vice versa? Then, like Mel Gibson, wonder why their 20 year younger woman would rather have someone that doesn't look like a grandpa.

[flowerlotus]

I just confronted him and its going worst. He's actually becoming violent now. Please give me some advice.

[MyNameIsJane]

Violent?

You need to leave. Physically leave until he can get his emotions under control, and if he is being violent, you need to only meet up with him to talk, if you can bring someone with you.

You need to divorce this guy.

[painfullyobvious]

Go to a woman's resource center or a local women's shelter if the violence escalates. He knows his days are numbered given what you know about his cheating