lovehurts Posted February 26, 2004 Share Posted February 26, 2004 I am after some honest advice here. A little background information. He broke up with me about 3 months ago after being togeter happily for a year. We were in love. I was heart broken when he left, and still am because of this situation. We started seeing each other again about 6 weeks ago. Things were fantasic and he made a lot of effort to get back into my life. I was happy again! But things havent gone the way I had hoped. We havent talked about getting back together and even though we have been sleeping together and doing things as a couple it seemed that we were still only friends in his eyes. I wasnt sure. I lovee this guy, with all of my heart and it hurts so badly not to know where I stand. The past couple of weeks have been tough for me. It seems thaat he has lost interest... and I dont know where I stand. Should I just come out and ask him?? Im afraid of the out come, cos I dont want to lose him again. In my heart, I dont see him asking for another chance, and I dont think my heart can deal with breaking all over again!! He has now completley stopped initiating contact!! I dont know what to do here!! Link to post Share on other sites
Darkangelism Posted February 26, 2004 Share Posted February 26, 2004 He may have lost interest its better to find out sooner then later, cause why waste your time with someone who isnt interested then spend your time finding a new man. Link to post Share on other sites
Author lovehurts Posted February 26, 2004 Author Share Posted February 26, 2004 I have organised to see him for a friendly catchup on the weekend. SHould I just observe his actions and just go with what my heart tells me, or bring up the situation and possibly get heartbroken. I have a feeling this will be the last time I see him, so should I just back away gracefully and leave the door open, or confront him?? Link to post Share on other sites
Author lovehurts Posted February 26, 2004 Author Share Posted February 26, 2004 then night before i am catching up with him i am going out with one of my guys friends who i have a slight interest in. Should i tell my ex that it was a date so that he knows that im not readily availiable to him anymore?? Link to post Share on other sites
carla Posted February 26, 2004 Share Posted February 26, 2004 Confront him and tell him how you feel. If he walks away, your heart won't be nearly as broken if you let things go they way they are now. Have sex when ever you see each other and then find out he's seeing someone else and then dumps you b/c he was only using you for sex. Walk away now will dignity. Don't tell him about your guy friend. If you end up starting something with the new guy and he's see you together in a couple of weeks. He's gonna be hurt and thinking well she sure got over me quick. Link to post Share on other sites
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