Leandro Posted September 27, 2010 Share Posted September 27, 2010 Ok so it's been 3 weeks since me and my ex talked and almost 2 months since the break up. I thought I was getting better and all. I went to a toga party with my cousin at his university and I was looking forward to meeting new friends and girls. It was all good and I was having fun. I met new girls but for some reason I kept comparing them to my ex, and no one came close to it. I didn't think to much about it till this morning when I walk up. I started to realize that I won't find anyone like her and that I will have to start fresh all over again. It hurt like hell knowing she is with someone else. I miss her even more now and the little things we use to do, but I won't break contact at all because nothing good will come from it. I just wanted to say that. Link to post Share on other sites
You Go Girl Posted September 27, 2010 Share Posted September 27, 2010 Ok so it's been 3 weeks since me and my ex talked and almost 2 months since the break up. I thought I was getting better and all. I went to a toga party with my cousin at his university and I was looking forward to meeting new friends and girls. It was all good and I was having fun. I met new girls but for some reason I kept comparing them to my ex, and no one came close to it. I didn't think to much about it till this morning when I walk up. I started to realize that I won't find anyone like her and that I will have to start fresh all over again. It hurt like hell knowing she is with someone else. I miss her even more now and the little things we use to do, but I won't break contact at all because nothing good will come from it. I just wanted to say that. You're right, you won't find anyone like her. Every woman you get to know well, your relationship with her will bring out things in you your ex didn't, will expand your knowledge of how interesting and different people can be on this earth. Your next relationship will have little in common with the one past, unless you force it, and if you force it, that would be bad habits on your part or some other reoccuring problem. The good thing is that no two people are quite alike on this earth, and no two relationships have the same dynamics. Life would be boring if they did. Link to post Share on other sites
cb9343 Posted September 27, 2010 Share Posted September 27, 2010 you need to not worry about dating again and just focus on you. Do stuff that will make you smile... you don't sound like your ready to date at all and it may take you time. You will know when you are ready. I have been on NC for a week now and i know it will take me motnhs before i even go there. its not fair to you or anyone else!! keep smiling! Link to post Share on other sites
Author Leandro Posted September 27, 2010 Author Share Posted September 27, 2010 Yea that's what I'm staring to think. I was happy single before her so I can be single and happy again. I'm just going to focus on losing weight and getting my degree. Now that I don't have to focus on her I can do max hours at school! I should be working with my degree by this time next year!! That will make me smile. Living well is the best revenge. Link to post Share on other sites
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