vhha1972 Posted September 27, 2010 Share Posted September 27, 2010 Hi everybody, I met this girl on a online dating website way back in May 2009. Since then we have been 'good friends' to say the least! We go out on dates from time to time -- perhaps once very month. We talk on the phone after every 2-3 days. I would like to take it a step further where we get a little intimate, or she tells me that she loves me, etc. I constantly express these feeling to her when I talk on the phone or when I meet her. But she has never been very open about her feelings. I have even told her at times that I love her. Earlier she said "let's be just friends". At that time we almost broke up but I patched it up within a week. Since then I don't use the words "I love you" but I do say I like you a lot, I care for you a lot, etc. She say things like you are really sweet, you are a very kind man, I like you. Recently, she told me "I am confused", "I am not sure if I should take the leap or not", "I don't want to hurt you". I think she contradicts herself because if she believes that we are just friends then why does she call me often or goes out with me often all nicely dressed up, etc. We have enjoyed some great evenings out for dinner, long drives, picnics, etc. Some more info: She is 44, I am 38. She is white and I am east Indian. Cheers, XYZ Link to post Share on other sites
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