Here to tell all!!

[SpillinItAll]

I am new here and ready to tell my story. I am an escort and hate that what I do to support my family hurts others. I am sure I will get bashed by plenty on here but thats OK. I am only here to give insight into what your husbands are doing under the radar. I would say half of my clients are married( most of them happily) and the other half are single. I am very successful in this industry and very well appreciated by my clients whom most have seen me for many years. I'm not the trashy looking girl you would think does this. No, I am classy, educated, PTA member, and reserved. I live in a nice neighborhood and I'm an involved parent but I have a double life that would shock you. By day I sleep with married wealthy business men and by night I am cooking 3 coarse meals for my kids and helping with homework. I have plenty to tell so have at it!

here it goes:eek:

[Bryanp]

Were you engaged in this profession when you were still married or did you begin to do this after you were divorced?

[SpillinItAll]

Never was married. I had a longterm relationship/ engagement during an off period from this escorting and left because he was verbally abusive. But did end up with 2 kids from our relationship.

[Bryanp]

I appreciate your honesty. Do you have a long term goal of getting married again? Are you fearful that down the line your children may find out? What are your long term goals in your life if you do not mind me asking? How do you not become cynical in your life?

[jnj express]

Hey you are in one of the oldest professions that exists---nothing wrong with it

 

Just make sure you don't contract any STD----and stay healthy for your kids

 

What kind of work you choose is your business, and no one else's

[greengoddess]

So are the married men into more varied sexual exprerience, kink, fetish with you they don't want to show their wife they are into or is it just a warm body they don't get often enough.

 

How about the single guys. What are they into? Are they the fugly ones that can't get girls or are too shy?

[SpillinItAll]

I appreciate your honesty. Do you have a long term goal of getting married again? Are you fearful that down the line your children may find out? What are your long term goals in your life if you do not mind me asking? How do you not become cynical in your life?

 

eventually I would love to be married. No, I highly doubt they will ever find out. I have a really good cover for a regular job. My friend own her own company and she is the only one n the world that knows, so she claims me as an employee for my friends and family.

I am actually starting school next semester for crime scene investigation and just enjoying life at this current time. I don't become cynical because I am great at separating my "work" from my homelife. I am apprehensive of men though because I have found out how many of them really do see escorts and its outrageous.

[Chrome Barracuda]

Some day it all comes crashing down. The spider web of lies and deceit will unravel and if you cannot be honest with the person your gonna marry i suggest you stay single. Using your best friend as a cover to hide what you do behind peoples backs is kinda dispicable.

 

Someone someway is gonna find out. It does happen believe me.

[elaina]

I am new here and ready to tell my story. I am an escort and hate that what I do to support my family hurts others. I am sure I will get bashed by plenty on here but thats OK. I am only here to give insight into what your husbands are doing under the radar. I would say half of my clients are married( most of them happily) and the other half are single. I am very successful in this industry and very well appreciated by my clients whom most have seen me for many years. I'm not the trashy looking girl you would think does this. No, I am classy, educated, PTA member, and reserved. I live in a nice neighborhood and I'm an involved parent but I have a double life that would shock you. By day I sleep with married wealthy business men and by night I am cooking 3 coarse meals for my kids and helping with homework. I have plenty to tell so have at it!

here it goes:eek:

 

Hi!

 

I appreciate your honesty, and it sounds very interesting. I wouldn't want to do what you do, but yes I would like to learn some things from you.

 

One thing I am puzzled about, you cook 3 coarse meals for your kids at night?

 

Anyways, these guys you say who are married happily, if they are married happily, why do they come to you please? Do they feel like they dont' get enough sex at home? Or, do they just like to have variety or what exactly, do you think? Thanks.

[spriggig]

Here's the only problem I have with this: You willingly continue to see men after you know they are married. With the rare exception of the wives who know and support their husband's choice, you are contributing to the destruction of that marriage--to the deceit that will eventually lead to unnecessary pain.

 

In the same way that there is no justification for any other kind of cheating, there is none for this.

[elaina]

Here's the only problem I have with this: You willingly continue to see men after you know they are married. With the rare exception of the wives who know and support their husband's choice, you are contributing to the destruction of that marriage--to the deceit that will eventually lead to unnecessary pain.

 

In the same way that there is no justification for any other kind of cheating, there is none for this.

 

Totally agree,

 

Spillinitall,

 

I do wonder though why happily married men go to an escort? How do you know they are happily married? Do they say they are? Do their wives know they are going to an escort and are fine with it?

 

What advice can you give wives to help motivate their husbands to not go to an escort please? Thanks.

[greengoddess]

How much do you charge for which acts?

Do you cuddle with your children in the same bed you conduct tricks?

[SpillinItAll]

to jnj express I'm always very safe. I know women who aren't in this profession that are way more risking then me.

 

to Greengoddess, it really varies from man to man. Some married men do have fantasies that they are too embarassed to share with their wives like having a strapon used on then or other embarrassing things. But most often they just like me to put on super sexy clothes with high heels and play around without any of the arguements or tension they may be experiencing at home. The ones I really hate are the guys who have good wives at home and just want variety and see me along with many other escorts. Those ones usually progress over time into wanting unsafe things I am not willing to do and I have to stop seeing them once it gets that far. I end up having to give them my little STD education and tell them they are going to catch something and bring it home to their wife and ruin their families.

The single guys are the same. Some want lots of time to talk and discuss whats new since we last saw eachother. Some want a variety, and some like kinky things(which I don't do a whole lot of). The one universal thing I have noticed is they want a friend. They actually like talking about there probles at work or at home and getting advice. Of coarse they like the sex part too but thats only part of what brings them to me.

[SpillinItAll]

Here's the only problem I have with this: You willingly continue to see men after you know they are married. With the rare exception of the wives who know and support their husband's choice, you are contributing to the destruction of that marriage--to the deceit that will eventually lead to unnecessary pain.

 

In the same way that there is no justification for any other kind of cheating, there is none for this.

 

Yes I do see them after I know they are married but keep in mind this is just my job. I don't seek them out or try to convince them to keep seeing me, this is a choice they make all on their own. Another thing is I never ever see any guy who is new to the whole thing. I'm not the first escort they see or the fist time they've cheated. On the once in a blue moon occasion when a wife finds my contact info I do not cover for him. only happened twice in my 9yrs though.Not that this makes it any better but I do tell the married ones that if I were their wife I would probably catch them and if I did I would leave. I even remember a conversation with one client as we were getting lunch, he was bitching as usual about how I was late and now he felt pressed for time and blah blah blah(he always was bitching). I told him 'Is this what your lake at home? I feel bad for your wife. You must be really hard to be married to" LOL.

[SpillinItAll]

How much do you charge for which acts?

Do you cuddle with your children in the same bed you conduct tricks?

 

it's $500 for an hour and its not a different charge for different things. It could be a lunch and talking or a tryst at a hotel. Same charge either way.

Good god No!! These men don't ever come to my house, sit in my car or even know what town I live in. I shower and change before getting my kids.

[Rashad]

Hey...

I have one question actually concerning the happily married men you are dealing with.

 

Does it ever puzzle you as to why they'd hire an escort? what is your explanation to that? Do you ever feel like it's beyond their control at some point?

 

Thank you for sharing with us.

[greengoddess]

so I assume you are making $500.00 an hour tax free.How do you account for the monetary assets you acquire then? Are you also on government assistance while taking in $500.00 an hour tax free?

[SpillinItAll]

Totally agree,

 

Spillinitall,

 

I do wonder though why happily married men go to an escort? How do you know they are happily married? Do they say they are? Do their wives know they are going to an escort and are fine with it?

 

What advice can you give wives to help motivate their husbands to not go to an escort please? Thanks.

 

Some do tell me they are happily married. I tend to ask lots of questions to know more about them. I want to know who I am seeing and over time I learn their whole life story. Even if they don't tell me it's a good marriage I have earned how to tell. I think there have only been a couple guys who had open marriages where the wife knew.

 

The best advice I can give to wives to keep their husbands from seeing escorts is try to keep the romance alive. Surprise them with sexy underwear and heels every once in a while. Listen to them when they have had a hard time with work or family issues. Feed their pride because they are more sensitive then you know. Make sure they don't feel judged when telling you their fantasies. And keep an eye on who they are friends with because some of the mid thirties married men do it because their friends are doing it. And don't withhold sex for long periods of time. Men need it often and if they don't get it at home they will eventually find it. I remember one guy saw me after it had been 15months that his wife hadn't had sex with him. He had been asking and asking and she just simply told him she didn't care for sex anymore.

[greengoddess]

Why do you only see men who have seen other prostitutes first?

[SpillinItAll]

so I assume you are making $500.00 an hour tax free.How do you account for the monetary assets you acquire then? Are you also on government assistance while taking in $500.00 an hour tax free?

 

No..I actually pay my taxes. I am not on any government assistance because my income is too high. I don't want to get in trouble for tax evasion and also getting house loans and stuff would be impossible if I didn't claim my income.

[SpillinItAll]

Why do you only see men who have seen other prostitutes first?

 

Not just prostitutes(road side hookers are a different story all together).. they have to have seen other escorts first so they know the proper escort etiquette. I don't want to have to deal with someone who is racked with nerves and unable to relax and conversate with me. Someone who has never seen an escort before is usually an uncomfortable experience for themselves and me so I refuse to see them. It's really common for escorts to ask new clients for an escort reference before seeing them.

[SpillinItAll]

Hey...

I have one question actually concerning the happily married men you are dealing with.

 

Does it ever puzzle you as to why they'd hire an escort? what is your explanation to that? Do you ever feel like it's beyond their control at some point?

 

Thank you for sharing with us.

 

Yes it puzzles me and thats why I ask them lots of questions. I want to understand why as well so I spend the whole time analyzing them and they don't even realize it. I think some of them do seem to have an addiction to seeing escorts or other women in general. It does appear out of their control. I think also some do it just because they are traveling for business and it's simply something to do. Those ones are usually highly paid and feel like it's not a big deal. I think those ones are able to stop once they get caught because they really value their homelife.

[greengoddess]

No..I actually pay my taxes. I am not on any government assistance because my income is too high. I don't want to get in trouble for tax evasion and also getting house loans and stuff would be impossible if I didn't claim my income.

 

So what job do you claim on taxes? personal consultant? I'm sure a lot of it is skimmed cash that is not claimed on taxes. I can't imagine they write a check for services rendered.So you are not only helping men to cheat but you are also cheating the goverment and eveery single one of your friends family and neighbors who pay their fair share of taxes.

[greengoddess]

Yes it puzzles me and thats why I ask them lots of questions. I want to understand why as well so I spend the whole time analyzing them and they don't even realize it. I think some of them do seem to have an addiction to seeing escorts or other women in general. It does appear out of their control. I think also some do it just because they are traveling for business and it's simply something to do. Those ones are usually highly paid and feel like it's not a big deal. I think those ones are able to stop once they get caught because they really value their homelife.

 

Do you ever fear seeing one of your kids friends dads?

LOL you ask a known cheater to provide you a reference from his other paid sexual encounters? you only want experienced customers?

[Bryanp]

I have another question if you do not mind. You said you would be thrilled if you were to be married in the future. Would you tell your prospective husband of your profession? Don't you think it would be difficult for a potential husband to accept all of this for a future mate?