Here to tell all!!

[GorillaTheater]

OK. There is one guy who I see maybe once every few months and he is super super hot!! Dresses extremely well(Armani suits nice shoes the whole nine). He has a super sexy Audi sports car(very expensive). He works in finance, financial adviser I think, at a very well known firm. The first time I saw him I was thinking how sexy this perfect guy is and he was getting undressed then I see under his suit a pair of womens thong underwear:lmao:. He really wore that to work all day LOL. I asked him later about it and he said he feel like it gives him an edge in business:laugh:. Like he is sitting in his meetings knowing he is secretly wearing womens underwear and it makes him feel empowered. It was hilarious, but I really like seeing him.

 

Great. Now I'm wondering what kind of underwear some of my co-workers are wearing.

[SpillinItAll]

With all due respect. I'm glad too, Spillin. But you clearly misunderstand me, completely. I'm not saying that I don't buy the IDEA of escorts, I'm saying that it is a waste of money for any man, who has even the slightest amount of self-confidence. My examples were about YOUNG GUYS, not older , more mature men. If you were as educated and mature as you claim, you would have known that. Also if you were as classy as you claim, you would know that there is no such thing as a 5 star restuarant on the Michelin Guide. As far as my maturity, 6 years in my country's service (wounded twice) and my current job as a HS history teacher says you are wrong. If you want to talk about issues, I'm your man, if you want to talk nonsense, then I'll leave you to it. Have fun.

 

No. I actually know exactly what you meant to say but decided to play with your words:p

And to be perfectly honest I prefer not to see younger men because they are not very respectful. I like men 35-45 as my clients. Also, there is five star dinning where I live. I am not going by the Michelin Guide because I live in the US, not Europe which is the area that mostly goes by that guide, right? I am not here to say it is such a great idea for guys to see escorts because personally I wouldn't waste my $ on that if I were a guy. I do happen to agree with you on that one point. But the fact remains that guys of all types do which works out great for me.

[GorillaTheater]

I am not here to say it is such a great idea for guys to see escorts because personally I wouldn't waste my $ on that if I were a guy.

 

Yeah, $500/hour seems a bit steep for companionship. There are times, however, when I might be willing to pay that much to be left alone.

[BB07]

Do you sometimes enjoy the sex?

How do you differentiate the sex you have on your job vs with someone you are in a relationship with?

 

Where do you go in your own head when you are with someone who repulses you or their kink is a total turn off?

[SpillinItAll]

Do you sometimes enjoy the sex? I do with some of my clients, some are incredible in bed

How do you differentiate the sex you have on your job vs with someone you are in a relationship with?I have never been in a relationship while I am working as an escort. Whenever I meet someone worthy I quit and get a regular job. I have done that several times over the years. I actually put genuine emotion into the lovemaking with a relationship. There is lots of acting wen it comes to my job. I am a great actress.

 

Where do you go in your own head when you are with someone who repulses you or their kink is a total turn off?

thats the hard part. I usually fantasize about past lovers or even think about my to do list for the day LOL!! plan my grocery trip for the meal I'll cook that night an stuff:lmao:. I go into auto pilot with those clients and I'm very good at pretending to pay attention to them. I hope none of them are reading this right now:laugh:

[SpillinItAll]

Yeah, $500/hour seems a bit steep for companionship. There are times, however, when I might be willing to pay that much to be left alone.

 

one of my clients rationalization was "I don't pay women for sex, I pay them to leave"

[Confused4Now]

one of my clients rationalization was "I don't pay women for sex, I pay them to leave"

hahahaha I've read that somewhere...Can I narrow it down that you are in California? hmmmmmm

[porter218]

sounds like a bigger city with those rates

[Rashad]

No I haven't. What is it about? Do you recommend I read it?

It's about a prostitute who orgasms while standing in the street looking at a clock... http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Eleven_Minutes maybe this makes more sense of it.

I understand you are not a prostitute per se, but you might relate to the main character, the same way I related to Kafka in "Kafka on the Shore"

For the record. I really don't approve of what you are doing, but I'm sure you don't approve of some of the stuff that I do, so it's all good. Also, I believe everything serves a purpose even the things that seem evil to us.

[SpillinItAll]

It's about a prostitute who orgasms while standing in the street looking at a clock... http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Eleven_Minutes maybe this makes more sense of it.

I understand you are not a prostitute per se, but you might relate to the main character, the same way I related to Kafka in "Kafka on the Shore"

For the record. I really don't approve of what you are doing, but I'm sure you don't approve of some of the stuff that I do, so it's all good. Also, I believe everything serves a purpose even the things that seem evil to us.

 

Wow. Can't really say that I've ever done that. I will check it out. I don't really expect anyone to approve of what I do, at the end of the day I am just trying to support my kids and eventually get out.

[SpillinItAll]

hahahaha I've read that somewhere...Can I narrow it down that you are in California? hmmmmmm

 

East coast. Thats as specific as I will get.

Yes Porter, I work in big city but I live in a smaller one outside of it.

[porter218]

East coast. Thats as specific as I will get.

Yes Porter, I work in big city but I live in a smaller one outside of it.

 

oh great! Wonder if my xH ever "hired" you.... ugh haha

No...doubt he could afford your rates

[Rashad]

Wow. Can't really say that I've ever done that. I will check it out. I don't really expect anyone to approve of what I do, at the end of the day I am just trying to support my kids and eventually get out.

the character in the book eventually gets out, you may find it pretty inspirational, or it may fill you up with false hope depends on how naive you are. Either way I suggest you read it.

[SpillinItAll]

the character in the book eventually gets out, you may find it pretty inspirational, or it may fill you up with false hope depends on how naive you are. Either way I suggest you read it.

 

naivete gets you nowhere in this business so that I am not. I'll try to grab a copy of that book, thanks.

[GorillaTheater]

Here's a question: have you ever had concerns about your safety in spite of your screening process, and what is your plan on dealing with situations like that?

 

I saw where you keep your residence a secret from clients, well done.

[SpillinItAll]

Here's a question: have you ever had concerns about your safety in spite of your screening process, and what is your plan on dealing with situations like that?

 

I saw where you keep your residence a secret from clients, well done.

 

I do worry about my safety. I most often will only see guys that I have been seeing for a long time therefor I know or at least feel that I am safe with them. The newer clients I am extremely careful with. I never let them see my car or if they do at least not my license plate(which is registered to another residence just in case). I wouldn't hesitate to call the police if I felt in danger and the agency always knows where I am and who I am with. Usually the work and escort reference requirement scares off possibly dangerous men. If I can't verify where they work before hand then It isn't worth the money to see them. I prefer to see them at a high end hotel so it is a slightly public setting at least for the first couple apts. Mostly I watch their behavior closely and if they make me uncomfortable I leave. Or if they appear to nervous or visibly uncomfortable I will also leave. I do think that the rates I charge do deter the undesirable clients though.

[JustJoe]

Well the guy I was referring to was in his early 30s and sexy as hell. He can have any girl he wants I figure, with his looks, personality, and wealth. But I think his main thing was he couldn't trust any woman because most people were after his money, and didn't like him for him. He actually DID want companionship. Maybe not every day, but when he felt the need to talk to someone who wasn't going to be a yes (wo)man and would be honest with him. So maybe that's why he wanted to set everything up. But I'm just speaking from my experience with this one guy in particular.

I am not rich by any means, Aero, but I am very comfortably off, and I've found that people , who are worried about their money aren't people I would care to know. This man , who you speak of, has serious trust issues.

[HappyAtLast]

Usually the work and escort reference requirement scares off possibly dangerous men. If I can't verify where they work before hand then It isn't worth the money to see them.

 

Are you trying to tell us that the wealthy businessmen actually provide their place of business on an escort application?

[GorillaTheater]

I do worry about my safety. I most often will only see guys that I have been seeing for a long time therefor I know or at least feel that I am safe with them. The newer clients I am extremely careful with. I never let them see my car or if they do at least not my license plate(which is registered to another residence just in case). I wouldn't hesitate to call the police if I felt in danger and the agency always knows where I am and who I am with. Usually the work and escort reference requirement scares off possibly dangerous men. If I can't verify where they work before hand then It isn't worth the money to see them. I prefer to see them at a high end hotel so it is a slightly public setting at least for the first couple apts. Mostly I watch their behavior closely and if they make me uncomfortable I leave. Or if they appear to nervous or visibly uncomfortable I will also leave. I do think that the rates I charge do deter the undesirable clients though.

 

It doesn't sound like you've had any kind of situation that was clearly taking an ugly turn.

 

I wasn't clear that you worked through an agency. What kind of cut goes to the agency? I assume they don't issue you a 1099 form or anything like that, right?

[2sure]

Are you trying to tell us that the wealthy businessmen actually provide their place of business on an escort application?

 

No, they do not. Nor do they provide their real names. A regular agency servicing celebrities and public figures knows who they are simply because of required referrals and security...but a call girl or smaller agency? Not a chance in hell.

 

Period.

[SpillinItAll]

It doesn't sound like you've had any kind of situation that was clearly taking an ugly turn.

 

I wasn't clear that you worked through an agency. What kind of cut goes to the agency? I assume they don't issue you a 1099 form or anything like that, right?

actually they do issue a 1099misc

no, never had a problem. But I would say I have walked out on dozens of appointments because it didn't feel right.

[JustJoe]

No. I actually know exactly what you meant to say but decided to play with your words:p

And to be perfectly honest I prefer not to see younger men because they are not very respectful. I like men 35-45 as my clients. Also, there is five star dinning where I live. I am not going by the Michelin Guide because I live in the US, not Europe which is the area that mostly goes by that guide, right? I am not here to say it is such a great idea for guys to see escorts because personally I wouldn't waste my $ on that if I were a guy. I do happen to agree with you on that one point. But the fact remains that guys of all types do which works out great for me.

I, personally, don't believe in the existance of anything higher than 3 stars. Actually , Spillin, I don't have a problem with a woman prostituting herself, but I really don't believe in the Julia Roberts "hooker with a heart of gold", either. MY GF was married to one of the wealthiest men in Texas as his "trophy wife", so I have some experience with wealthy men and their "escorts." I reserve most of my contempt for the men, who, for whatever reasons, feel this is a good option, instead of manning up and finding a Lady of their own. I also don't buy the idea that an "escort", "call girl ", "hooker", or any other prostitute, is able to consumate a regular relationship , without deceit. The idea that such a person can f**k a "client", and feel nothing , then f**k her lover and have spectacular , orgasmic sex, is another myth. I've known a few sex workers , actresses and such, and almost all of them are sexually dysfunctional, in some way.

[HappyAtLast]

So, my supposition that the original poster really has no idea of the identity and background of the men with whom she does business is correct?

 

Despite what she may think.

[SpillinItAll]

 

No, they do not. Nor do they provide their real names. A regular agency servicing celebrities and public figures knows who they are simply because of required referrals and security...but a call girl or smaller agency? Not a chance in hell.

 

Period.

 

Really 2sure?? Do you work for an agency because I do and YES they do require that. I don't see clients without a state issued ID(d@mn near every girl in this industry requires that much) and a work # I can call one time and ask for them(I don't identify myself to their business) and the name and number of another escort they have seen. My agency is by far not the only one that does this because we get escort reference calls from other girls about our regular clients too. Of coarse lots of guys get nervous about us knowing where they work but they either tell us or they don't see me.If the office is one where they can't get a call from us with out raising red flags then I will settle for running a check online for the work # to make sure it matches up. Look 2sure, its a scary world and wether you believe it or not I like to be as careful as I can.

[HappyAtLast]

There is nothing wrong with being careful. But having been a wealthy successful surgeon in my day, I certainly would not have risked providing a call girl agency with such information, had I been interested in using such a service.

 

Wondering how successful these gentleman with whom you do business really are, as the risk of being exposed as using call girl services is much greater than the risk of being discovered to me in an affair-type relationship. Probably less damaging also.

 

just thinking out loud.