Here to tell all!!

[SpillinItAll]

There is nothing wrong with being careful. But having been a wealthy successful surgeon in my day, I certainly would not have risked providing a call girl agency with such information, had I been interested in using such a service.

 

Wondering how successful these gentleman with whom you do business really are, as the risk of being exposed as using call girl services is much greater than the risk of being discovered to me in an affair-type relationship. Probably less damaging also.

 

just thinking out loud.

 

The thing here is an OW is also going to know most of this stuff, I would think. These guys are pretty successful and are just used to providing info to escorts because this isn't their first rodeo. They know the drill. We are bound to keep their info secret because of the nature of this business. Honestly most of these men call us directly from their work number anyway as to not have anything on their cellphone bill. Blocked numbers are never answered and that is just standard in this business. Once the work reference is properly explained they usually give in. Hell, I have even had a guy last week who brought me a copy of his paystub for proof of employment. Even I was shocked he was willing to do that but in his case he couldn't get a phone call at work because he shares a business with his wife. I know the work reference isn't something all the escorts require but I am a low volume escort and can afford to cherry pick my clients.

[Pickles4Breakfast]

There is nothing wrong with being careful. But having been a wealthy successful surgeon in my day, I certainly would not have risked providing a call girl agency with such information, had I been interested in using such a service.

 

Why not? It's a business proposition. It actually makes more sense, if one is going to deal with an escort service, to pick one that is "professional" in the sense of asking for references from the clientele. The client is also probably going to have more security with a professionally-run escort service then one that does not check its clients' references. If the service is careless with the clients, it may also be careless as to the workers it hires to service those clients.

 

The bottom line on referencing checking clients would seem to be concern for the safety of the workers. That seems to me a good thing not a bad thing.

 

Wondering how successful these gentleman with whom you do business really are,

 

...well if they're actually paying $500 an hour for this sort of totally discretionary activity then it seems they'd have to be pretty successful people. Esp. if they are "regulars."

 

 

as the risk of being exposed as using call girl services is much greater than the risk of being discovered to me in an affair-type relationship. Probably less damaging also.

 

Hope this is not serious on your part. I think most guys are actually MUCH more secure with a very professionally run escort service than with the typical OW/gf. The service wants a satisfied clientele, not trouble. The same can't be said of many OW's/gf's.

 

The only type of people who have to really be careful about using a high class escort service would be the high profile political types such as Elliott Spitzer, who traffic in selling a "clean image" to the general public. Do you remember the names of any other of the clients of that particular service that Spitzer used? I don't.

 

Counter examples would be John Edwards and Mark Hurd. Both of these guys would probably have been much better off with high class professional escorts than the gf's/OWs they chose.

 

As Charlie Sheen, noted user of call girl services famously stated when asked why he spent so much money on hookers: "I don't pay for the sex, I pay them to go away."

[atlnay]

lol i think married men who have other women are smarter than this sex for hire clients.

 

They get sex outside the marriage, the ow will keep their secret because she is desperate not to lose them, and it's free. it's like their own personal free escort. the ow are usually at their beck and call too without charging. Your clients are silly. Why not just get a girlfriend instead of paying for you?

 

That leads to feelings, expectations, demands, drama etc etc etc. It can be emotionally draining for a dude that just wants a true good time NSA. And there is an old saying, "A man does not pay a prostitute to have sex with him, he pays her to leave after they're done." *shrug*

[aerogurl87]

I am not rich by any means, Aero, but I am very comfortably off, and I've found that people , who are worried about their money aren't people I would care to know. This man , who you speak of, has serious trust issues.

 

He probably does but that's what happens when greed takes over your life I guess.

[NoIDidn't]

Are you trying to tell us that the wealthy businessmen actually provide their place of business on an escort application?

 

 

No, they do not. Nor do they provide their real names. A regular agency servicing celebrities and public figures knows who they are simply because of required referrals and security...but a call girl or smaller agency? Not a chance in hell.

 

Period.

 

I'm thinking the clients have to have provided something. But even withholding their actual names doesn't protect them from Black Book keeping Madames.

 

I get what the two of you are saying. Maybe the way the OP worded it, it comes across as if they are giving personally identifying inforamation like social security numbers or W2s or something.

 

I know several women/girls who did just this in college. And they didn't even have an agency behind them, per se. They had ways of verifying that the men could pay. And the men usually did provide the information they needed. Its was means of keeping both sides honest. Him paying her and her keeping his identity in confidence.

[SpillinItAll]

Well the women , well whores in these cases I should say, that do not do any checking are the unprofessional drug addicted ones. There are plenty of those and they are an affordable option for men really want that kind of trash. Those girls only charge $60 to $200 at most. Whores don't check, they don't care they just want their money and provide no personality or companionship. Now the men who want quality and beauty look for the ones like me and are happy to provide what I ask.

[SpillinItAll]

Why not? It's a business proposition. It actually makes more sense, if one is going to deal with an escort service, to pick one that is "professional" in the sense of asking for references from the clientele. The client is also probably going to have more security with a professionally-run escort service then one that does not check its clients' references. If the service is careless with the clients, it may also be careless as to the workers it hires to service those clients.

 

Bingo! Exactly.

[JustJoe]

Also, Spillin, If you want to rent out your body, that's your business, and I respect that. What I don't respect is the implied moral or social "superiority ",of an escort over the girl who sells it on the corner. You are both prostitutes, only by grace of your apparently greater physical attractiveness, or somewhat better education, you get the better paying gig. I believe in calling a spade, a spade.

[aerogurl87]

I gotta agree with JustJoe an escort is just a hooker by another name.

[SpillinItAll]

Also, Spillin, If you want to rent out your body, that's your business, and I respect that. What I don't respect is the implied moral or social "superiority ",of an escort over the girl who sells it on the corner. You are both prostitutes, only by grace of your apparently greater physical attractiveness, or somewhat better education, you get the better paying gig. I believe in calling a spade, a spade.

 

I "rent" out my time not my body. The reason I differentiate myself from a street hooker is that I do things other then sex. More then anything these guys want someone to ask how their day was, remember their bdays, ask how things are going with their mothers illness, enjoy a meal with, go shopping, engage in conversation on their interests that noone else listens to.. etc. There is a huge difference in what I do and what they do but I respect your choice to view it as you wish.

[JustJoe]

Please, Spillin....I guess that the best delusion is "self", delusion. If what these men wanted is what you say, they would be renting a 70 year old Jewish Grandma. The "kicker", is that they get to use your body and you get to fake orgasms. Hooray for free enterprise!! I appreciate that you have to make yourself think that what you are doing is somehow 'better', that run-of-the-mill hooking, but, bottom line, it is still effing for cash. Having said that, I would be a mean-spirited sugar-daddy, if I tried to take away your self-esteem, so lets pretend that I believe you and we can have some really interesting chats, Okay?

[SpillinItAll]

I gotta agree with JustJoe an escort is just a hooker by another name.

 

Both yes and no. There are differences as stated above, but in some parts of my job it can be considered a hooker. The spectrum isn't just black and white, there are many shades of grey in the middle.

[JustJoe]

Actually, this is kind of fun!! Tell you what I'll do, Spillin, you admit to being a hooker, and I'll admit to being an arrogant prick, and we can start out from the facts and see where it leads.:)

[SpillinItAll]

Please, Spillin....I guess that the best delusion is "self", delusion. If what these men wanted is what you say, they would be renting a 70 year old Jewish Grandma. The "kicker", is that they get to use your body and you get to fake orgasms. Hooray for free enterprise!! I appreciate that you have to make yourself think that what you are doing is somehow 'better', that run-of-the-mill hooking, but, bottom line, it is still effing for cash. Having said that, I would be a mean-spirited sugar-daddyNo sh*t! lol, if I tried to take away your self-esteem, so lets pretend that I believe you and we can have some really interesting chats, Okay?

 

thats where they get the best of both worlds, instead of a wrinkly old jewish grandma he gets a youthful attractive woman scantily clad massaging his shoulders while we talk about these thing. Honestly that part there is what keeps them coming back to me and not to the other escorts. I appear interested, and to be honest sometimes I am(in their lives that is).

[SpillinItAll]

Actually, this is kind of fun!! Tell you what I'll do, Spillin, you admit to being a hooker, and I'll admit to being an arrogant prick, and we can start out from the facts and see where it leads.:)

 

arghh! sheesh. fine:laugh:

(kinda LOL)

Edited September 29, 2010 by SpillinItAll
pride lol

[JustJoe]

Believe me, I CAN be a nice man, really. I even have testimonials. I was a nice guy, on thursday May 15, 2008, at about 9:32 A.M. It lasted a whole 20 minutes.

[SpillinItAll]

Believe me, I CAN be a nice man, really. I even have testimonials. I was a nice guy, on thursday May 15, 2008, at about 9:32 A.M. It lasted a whole 20 minutes.

 

Was it painfull ? Did you end up at the hospital at 9:52am? :lmao:

[JustJoe]

I had a kind of Epiphany. Like when Dorothy goes from black and white to color, and My life flashed before my eyes. But other than that, nada. BTW I do have an interesting story about escorts that I will tell you when you have enough posts to PM. One of the neatest things that ever happened to me, during my time in the Army.

Edited September 29, 2010 by JustJoe

[JustJoe]

I've no idea, but you'll get there. BTW, if I like a person on LS i give them a song, it's about all I can do, so here's yours. I hope you like it, it's an oldie, but pretty , all the same.http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CbSg4yVLd_I

[BB07]

Geez..........u 2 get a room, OK.

[JustJoe]

I was thinking more along the lines of Spillin paying me!! Hey, she could do worse!!

[turnstone]

 

No, they do not. Nor do they provide their real names. A regular agency servicing celebrities and public figures knows who they are simply because of required referrals and security...but a call girl or smaller agency? Not a chance in hell.

 

Period.

 

Hmm, that's what I was thinking but wasn't sure if I was skewing facts in the light of my exH, who would never have given his true details had he done something like this. Also, I think he and his peers, if they were paying that sort of money, would have picked someone who could at least tell the difference between 'course' and 'coarse' if they were to be seen out with them. Having said that, I'm not sure my exH would have wanted to take a call girl to an expensive restaurant in the light of his marital status, where he could have been recognised and his extra curricular activities been exposed. This type of service that the OP is talking about would definitely have been behind closed doors.

 

So, I can't understand why an expensive call girl would come to LS to essentially brag about her work under the auspices of telling married women the truth about their husbands, when its plain that the vast majority, if not all of the BS here, have been victim to affairs with women who are absolutely not prostitutes. Lizzie at least has been careful enough to portray herself as an OW who is not paid for her 'services', even though its come out that it's not exactly accurate.

 

There's a lot of things that just don't seem to add up.......

[BB07]

but he doesn't want to pay

 

I was thinking more along the lines of Spillin paying me!! Hey, she could do worse!!

 

U 2 could compare notes on who was worth the cost and report back on LS.

[JustJoe]

IDK about Spillin, but I'm worth more than a lousy $500.00 an hour. I feel undervalued, most of the time.:D

[aerogurl87]

thats where they get the best of both worlds, instead of a wrinkly old jewish grandma he gets a youthful attractive woman scantily clad massaging his shoulders while we talk about these thing. Honestly that part there is what keeps them coming back to me and not to the other escorts. I appear interested, and to be honest sometimes I am(in their lives that is).

 

Yes but wouldn't it be easier for a guy to just get a sugar baby and call it a day? I mean he gets all the companionship he wants at a set price for the month, no drama, and a pretty young thing who he knows will be his and all his and not serving other clients.