sucess with women

[hardlover]

Just my 50 cents:

 

 

1 not too serious, it should be a bit relaxing, but VERY trendy clothes, showing you got skill: for instance,don't try to mix colours too much, it shows you are to concious.

 

 

2 You must feel happy with how your life is. Inner happines is very very important. Inner happines will increase your self confidence I dunno how you can reach it but here is some tips:

 

(1)some cool friends, good job, not working too much, lots of party, lots of interest and you should always have some kind of future goal to strive for.

 

3 be coool. Never complain, ask what she thinks about things, or show that you are upset. Just be cool and happy,joke, and have a nice time.

 

4 general rules:

 

girls are very good at picking up social ques, insecurities etc. Just be cool, social, talkative and social. Dont boast, act social perfect.

 

 

1 reinforcing what she says: for instance she tells that it is: and you say, yeah, its very rainy now. She can only say hehe yes, there is nothing for her to say. This is not cool. Cool is about: building on what she says, no reply and silence. This will show more confidence than trying to reinforce what she says,as she will see that you try to fit in.

 

2 talk a lot. You should be the one who talk most, telling things. She will be feeling amazed coming to your world.

 

 

and yeah, i would not try to pick on her too much, and trying to be witty, depending on who it is, if its a smart girl, she may perceive you as trying to hard, or being insecure. Of course, you can do this, but it require some great finesse, staying on the line, and going overboard, or showing that you try too much, and it will be a pain in your ass keeping up with it. Try to be spontaneous and yourself in general instead.

 

4 dont be too pushy and forward.Be cooool.

 

5 Be witty.which is : clever jokes,smart discussions BUST STILL LIGHT, and not being to serious. Well of course, this is the hardest thing,either you have it or you dont , being witty, and keeping up with a smart girl for instance,building on what she says et, smart clever jokes, and comments.

Important thing is that she perceives you as: not caring about trivalties,you are cool, living your life.

Edited September 27, 2010 by hardlover