Gogee Posted February 26, 2004 Share Posted February 26, 2004 Ok, I've been stressing quite a bit over this situation lately and was hoping that someone could break it down for me. I recently went on a week long trip and I met a girl there. We were getting along really well, danced together, talked, kissed and exchanged numbers. It was the conversation more than anything, I feel that I've never before connected with anyone so profoundly as I did with her that night. When I went to visit her I felt the same vibe again...seriously, I've been with enough girls whom I liked (and who were even hotter than her), but nothing that would even come close to how I felt with her. We talked for a bit, and then went out. The way I felt with her was so profound I can't even really describe it other than to say that I felt like I could never find anyone as compatible with me as her, I just kept thinking, she's the one, no doubt. We went out for breakfast and kissed parting ways cause I had to catch my train. We exchanged numbers and email. A few days after I had come back home I couldn't get her off my mind. I decided to email her, and I guess the email was pretty intense, but very honest, implying that I really felt for her and hoped to see her again. She hasn't responded, and I don't think she will. I haven't bothered to call her cause I don't want to just keep getting attached to her even more. It's screwed me up so much. Especially because I've been making some real progress with my professional life on the radio and I've been in such a bummed out mood that I can't appreciate anything, my friends tell me that it's rubbing off on them...I toss around in bed at night, just thinking how unfair unrequited love is. So I just wanted to know, whether it was just a one night stand for her, she just wanted to get off? But then why would she tell me so much about herself, open up like that, and do all that passionate cuddly in bed stuff? I've never felt this attached to anyone, it's so hard, so damn hard to focus on everyday stuff now...did she just think that since I live far away from her any kind of relationship would be impossible to develop through email or the phone? Any advice will be really appreciated... Link to post Share on other sites
dreamyluv7 Posted February 26, 2004 Share Posted February 26, 2004 Hi, I think with all those intense emotions and feelings of connections that you two made- may be nothing more than infatuation. See infatuation and love walk a fine line. In this case, you may have just had a fling in head, and maybe she didn't believe something that good would come her, there are alot of possiblities. In this case, try to ask her real feelings about what happened and make sure she is at the same level. She may be just scared of distance in this case too. Link to post Share on other sites
Tony T Posted February 27, 2004 Share Posted February 27, 2004 You were a one night fling, plain and simple. Many women are very much turned off by men who fall for them so quickly. Go after females who live closer to you and take your time. Don't go bonkers overnight. Love has to simmer a while before it boils. Link to post Share on other sites
Graciegrace Posted February 27, 2004 Share Posted February 27, 2004 I kind of feel like only half of the story in there! But I would give her a call, and leave her a message about how great of a time you had. Then just wait for her to call you back. You probably scared her away. I know all about that. I just posted an ad. Maybe you can give me some advice:) Give her some space. She might come around. Good Luck. Link to post Share on other sites
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