mclovin Posted September 28, 2010 Share Posted September 28, 2010 My boyfriend asked if we move in together. We just began our search. However, he has cats that I am allergic to. Flashback: Past history-I had a cat...as long as the house was clean and out of the bedroom I was fine. I made my bf aware of this and TOLD HIM TO KEEP HIS CATS. I have been seeking pet friendly apartments ONLY. Now he is thinking of getting rid of his cats.Because of my health and having pets are limiting our apartment search. I can tell he is heartbroken. I'm a little scared. Feeling like his OWN will to do this is breaking his heart. I feel like I'm intruding on his life. No matter how often I discuss this with him, I can't help but feel this way. Should I tell him we should postpone our agreement to live together? I already had two failed relationships. I feel like I'm breaking up his happiness. Link to post Share on other sites
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