asilisa Posted February 26, 2004 Share Posted February 26, 2004 hello people my boyfriend and i have been going out for 3 months, and usually everything is great. this week i have midterms so i've been on edge and probably alittle snappy at him. last night we had a big fight and i realized i was being mean to him because i've been studing so much and not being able to hang out with him(so i was taking it out on him). i guess i just have a hard time expressing myself, and when i do he never understands me. anyway i apologized for this, but he said i'll never change and thats just the way i am. it really gets on my nerves because when he does something wrong and says sorry i'm supposed to just accepted it, but when i do something wrong and say sorry its like i don't mean it. and it seems like lately the things he does that i don't like, aren't wrong anymore i'm just being a pain. another thing is that i don't really feel that he supports me, like he knew i had been studing for a long time for this test on wednesday and he didn't even say good luck or ask me how it went. i realize he may have forgotten so i didn't get mad. its just getting old always feeling like the one who did something wrong. when truly i don't believe i do all these things wrong. i feel like i'm always kinda depressed about the whole situation, and it might be easier just to walk away. then its kinda like i don't want to because i have a lot of feelings for him. how am i supposed to deal with this, i feel like crap. he was still mad at me this morning, i think. --thanks[color=black][/color] Link to post Share on other sites
Arabess Posted February 26, 2004 Share Posted February 26, 2004 Love is about being with someone who makes you smile, feel accepted, feel special and a whole assortment of other wonderful feelings. If you are in a relationship where you are on pins and needles, you never know what his response is going to be and he's ruining your days.....then it's not a good relationship. If you were married, you would have to work on it. However, in a dating situation, if it's not good for you....then there is no reason to stay in the relationship in the first place. That's what 'dating' does....it enables you to weed thru the frogs till you find YOUR version of a Prince. Don't settle for anything less. Link to post Share on other sites
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