Asassin Posted October 3, 2010 Share Posted October 3, 2010 Alright,so I have this childhood friend whom i've known since we were like 6 or 7,he trusts me a lot so he introduced me to his gf last year and since then the his gf and I have gotten along very well,we've become very close friends and he doesnt mind it because he trusts me with all his heart as i said. But i've developed feelings for his gf,very strong feelings,im not sure if this is love or am i just confused, We're all 1-2 years seperate in our uni years, my friend went last year, his gf went this year and im going next year, were going to the same uni, and also moving in together next year once I go. The 3 of us are the best of friends and his gf is the most nicest and understanding person i've ever met, she also quite pretty. shes older than both of us, shes 25, my friend is 21, and im 19. Since my friend left for uni, its been a long distance relationship for them,he came back for his holidays this year and they broke up over their future because their religions and cultures clash and my friend was like i cannot promise you anything, but that made his gf cry a lot, she was depressed and sad,she came to me cryed, I couldnt stand it,i cared for her so much that i wanted to do anything to make her happy,even if it meant getting them together again, so i tried my best to talk to my friend about it and eventually they got together again, i didnt know what i was doing,maybe that was my opportunity to try and get her into my life but I just couldnt see her cry,she loved him and i wanted to get him for her. She came back recently from uni for a week,and we hanged out a lot,we went shopping together and ate out together,I went to her place and we took her dog for a walk to the beach,i met her mom and we had dinne rtogether, it was just amazing. I've realised that i've fallen for her, all day i think of her and how she is. All this while my friend is still in uni, i know shes gonna go back coz shes only on holiday and actually shes leaving tom, but i feel so much for her im scared how i'll cope once we all move in for uni, i cant hide my feelings for her all my life,it just hurts so bad now, i wish i didnt fall for her,and im not even sure if she has any feelings for me or if she jus sees me as a friend. but i know if she ever comes into my life, i would try to keep her the happiest person on this earth,religion,culture,age, all these things dont matter for me at all, i've found someone who i love being with Even if she doesnt end up in my life or my friends life in the end, i just wish that god keep her happy whoever shes with,may god give me all her sadness and give her all my happiness, i know it sounds corny but thats exactly how i feel about her, It just hurts so much,and my inner feelings are all so jumbled i dont even know what to do. Link to post Share on other sites
carhill Posted October 3, 2010 Share Posted October 3, 2010 Tell me about another girl you've spent this much time with that you didn't 'fall in love' with. Uni is about discovering yourself. Look around. You're surrounded by young, single, attractive women who aren't your childhood friend's girlfriend, present or former. Wow, lucky you Link to post Share on other sites
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