Fufu Posted November 24, 2010 Share Posted November 24, 2010 I agree with Travador.. severed ties with him completely. it's not immature to cut this fellow out of your life. My ex-bf which i thought was so loving and nice, turned out to be a horror after he broke up with me. (I guess we all feel this way from our ex). I delete his number from my phone, block and delete him from facebook, delete him from skype and msn. And they always come back asking, "Can we be friends? Can we be good friends?" They must be nuts. Link to post Share on other sites
Author livelife Posted November 25, 2010 Author Share Posted November 25, 2010 I agree with both of you. I am going to block all ways of contact from him. I do not want to hear from him ever again. ever!! T, when you mentioned how " he always gets the laugh" or something like that, yes, he does. But I think the laugh is more at him when his close guy friends text me and say, your my hero, for telling him off. Who knows. Link to post Share on other sites
Author livelife Posted November 26, 2010 Author Share Posted November 26, 2010 wow! we have kept this thread going for a while. Thank you guys for all your support, advice, and help. I REALLY appreciate it. Anyways- The ex is blocked from the phone from all calls and texting, and blocked from facebook!! Link to post Share on other sites
Author livelife Posted November 28, 2010 Author Share Posted November 28, 2010 another update! Anyways, so now that my ex is blocked from my phone and facebook, its been hard since this time last year we were getting together. My friend and I are good friends with one of his friends, and my friend and him even had a thing for a while ( still do.) we met up with him and went out to lunch because my friend lives out of state- he wanted to see her. we were talking and last night me and my friend kept thinking about things this time last year, all the fun times all of us had together ( my ex, my friend, his friend and Me.) his friend told us that my ex and him were talking about that too just 2 days ago. Kinda weird how that all connects. I do miss him still, but definitely not as much as i did when this tread started! its just getting lonely, thats all. My ex is now hooking up with some girl that just got out of a 3 year relationship. ( oh yeah, shes a keeper.) Link to post Share on other sites
Author livelife Posted December 21, 2010 Author Share Posted December 21, 2010 Hey- Hope you're doing good Trovador! It's been almost a month since we last talked. Not much has changed, hes still blocked from everything. A MONTH!! Im so proud of myself honestly:) But, I did think I left a North Face jacket at his house, so my friend asked him if he could look for it. He told her that he had texted me an hour ago and that he missed us cause this time last year we were all together and hanging out. (ha) She told him that I blocked him. He told her to tell me that he wanted to talk to me, and she said well i don't know if she will unblock you, shes pretty mad at you! Anyways, thats my update:) A little lonely here and there, but I can get through it with friends and family. Link to post Share on other sites
Trovador Posted December 21, 2010 Share Posted December 21, 2010 Hey, LL, nice to hear from you... you see, I've been absent from this forum because... (kinda embarassed to say this) the main reason to come here doesn't exist as of now, I mean my ex isn't an ex, at least these days... yep, we are back, if you remember my former posts, she reached to me after I decided I was through with all this break up stuff... well, she has changed a lot, I've changed a lot and we were really good friends for a while, until she confessed to me that... well, she had feelings for truly yours again... This is not a success story because, honestly, I didn't expect anything from her, and anyway I´m not the clingy and desperate one anymore so I don't care too much if this lasts or not but funny thing is that until I really let everything behind she reacted and now that she is back I'm not sure if this is what I wanted, or better said, if this is what I wanted so much... I don't know what happened and I don't know if I am happy or what after so much emotional turmoil, but I taking this with a grain of salt... anyway, I am glad you are doing fine and I hope you find soon the happiness you deserve... Link to post Share on other sites
Author livelife Posted December 21, 2010 Author Share Posted December 21, 2010 Well im happy for you as long as your happy!! I understand, I have not been on here much because I am not hurting anymore! yay! I will still check every so often and see if you have posted anything/ check up! Keep me updated and good luck with your relationship! Link to post Share on other sites
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