ReadyWriter Posted October 6, 2010 Posted October 6, 2010 my girlfriend cheated on me in the beginning of our relationship. But when she was pregnant she never confess to me that she cheated. I came to find out until the baby was born. And then she told me that baby might not be my bio daughter. I know i should have done a DNA test, but i took on the responsibility of a father to take care of the baby. I wanted to be there, and help take care of that beautiful little girl. I knew in my heart that the baby was mine. I sacrificed a lot just to take care of the baby and my girlfriend, but nothing I did was never enough. I experience strong emotional pain. My father turn against me. And sometimes feel like I was alone, my girl never give me the credit for all the things I did. Our relationship lasted for five years, and some period we broke up and got back together. I thought was been a good man and a good father, but I was hurting myself back and forth. The little is three years old now. She calls me daddy. I really do care for her. But after the I finally did the DNA test, I find out that she not my bio daughter. My world flipped upside down, though the mother told me in the beginning of the relationship, i still feel like i was somewhat naive to never initiate the paternity test. I forgive the mother, and i am trying to work things out with her now. But I am not sure if I really want to continue with her, though she still love me. I love her too. But just the idea of her not been the mother of my real bio daughter is just make me uneasy. I wanted to be there for that little angel, and just be a good friend to the mother. I need some advice....thank you
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