Brady_to_Moss Posted October 10, 2010 Share Posted October 10, 2010 you ever look back and realize how much you F'ed up a good opportunity with a great person? I cant get over it right now. Background: 2 1/2 years ago at school i was good friends with these 2 girls both of whom are best friends. The roommate of the girl i liked told me she thought i was cute and i should ask her out. Well i never did. About 2 weeks after that she asked me to come down to school (it was summer and i was at home only about 20 min away and she was in her dorm room) to hangout and get dinner and a movie...well i turned her down as i wasn't very confident then and figured nothing would come of it..she asked me again 1 week later and i did the same thing Shes funny, very smart and very attractive in my eyes and i turned her down all because i was afraid... 2 months later she is going out with another guy and have been together ever since and now i found out they are planning on getting engaged. It sucks so much that i could have had a chance with this wonderful girl. I mean she is seriously like my ideal match and i turned it down.....i feel like crap right now even though it happened 2 years ago...i know there is no way i am going to be in that position again with her...we barley talk anymore after being really good friends. Sorry for the long rant..i am just so pissed at myself for some reason right now....I guess i dont really have a question..whats your story about the one that got a way? Link to post Share on other sites
amerikajin Posted October 10, 2010 Share Posted October 10, 2010 you ever look back and realize how much you F'ed up a good opportunity with a great person? I cant get over it right now. Background: 2 1/2 years ago at school i was good friends with these 2 girls both of whom are best friends. The roommate of the girl i liked told me she thought i was cute and i should ask her out. Well i never did. About 2 weeks after that she asked me to come down to school (it was summer and i was at home only about 20 min away and she was in her dorm room) to hangout and get dinner and a movie...well i turned her down as i wasn't very confident then and figured nothing would come of it..she asked me again 1 week later and i did the same thing Shes funny, very smart and very attractive in my eyes and i turned her down all because i was afraid... 2 months later she is going out with another guy and have been together ever since and now i found out they are planning on getting engaged. It sucks so much that i could have had a chance with this wonderful girl. I mean she is seriously like my ideal match and i turned it down.....i feel like crap right now even though it happened 2 years ago...i know there is no way i am going to be in that position again with her...we barley talk anymore after being really good friends. Sorry for the long rant..i am just so pissed at myself for some reason right now....I guess i dont really have a question..whats your story about the one that got a way? Today's missed opportunity just makes it possible for someone else to move into your life tomorrow. Link to post Share on other sites
skydiveaddict Posted October 10, 2010 Share Posted October 10, 2010 (edited) ySorry for the long rant..i am just so pissed at myself for some reason right now....I guess i dont really have a question..whats your story about the one that got a way? I didn't turn her down, she was just gone when I got home. But she was most certainly "the one". There will never be another one. My best guess is that she met someone else while I was deployed. But I don't know. Other than a couple of useless texts, I haven't seen or spoken to her. My trust is completely shattered. No more relationships for me. Edited October 10, 2010 by skydiveaddict Link to post Share on other sites
jeff2321 Posted October 10, 2010 Share Posted October 10, 2010 I completely relate. I came home from work one day and my ex took everything and just simply moved out. I literally walked into an empty house with a bunch of broken stuff on the floor. I'm shattered myself and have some major trust issues. No more relationships for me either. The thought of even having sex with someone else makes me ill right now. And this is 3 months post breakup I'm still feeling this way. Jeff Link to post Share on other sites
Disillusioned Posted October 10, 2010 Share Posted October 10, 2010 And yet clones would still be a bad idea. Link to post Share on other sites
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