Floridaman Posted October 10, 2010 Share Posted October 10, 2010 An intersting discussion.. http://www.mancouch.com/695906701/just-the-tip-is-she-still-a-virgin/ In a typical game of "Just the tip" it will be verbally agreed that the male may penetrate his partner's vagina, but with stipulation that his may only insert the glans or "tip" of his penis. The female payoff is that she may avoid both physical pain and/or social ostracism, while the male enjoys limited coitus. In many cases, it is documented that upon insertion a formally reluctant female may become to open to allowing the male other sexual largesse; hence the games popularity. If a man and woman play a game of "just the tip" are they still virgins? "just the tip" is a game in which a man has intercourse with a woman but doesn't go all the way. He inserts just his tip, hence the title of the game. The argument there, is that once you pass a certain threshold, the virginity is gone. .... Even if the entry was not complete, the simple act of entry would void the virginity. Wonder how many brain-dead women have fallen for this kind of thing. Link to post Share on other sites
that girl Posted October 10, 2010 Share Posted October 10, 2010 Wonder how many brain-dead women have fallen for this kind of thing. I think you're a little brain dead for thinking it is something scores of women fall for. "Just the tip" was a wedding crashers joke. I do know of couples who took multiple tries at virginity loss because of pain, but I really don't think it is some normal game. It can be a step towards a couple having sex, but that doesn't mean the woman is some idiot. The guys in the article sound pretty jerky to be saying this girl can no longer consider herself a virgin. I think it is telling that he didn't continue dating her, my guess is that she didn't think he was worth sleeping with. Every "just the tip" story I know of, the couple eventually slept together. Women are people, not vending machines for men's sexual pleasure. Link to post Share on other sites
Knittress Posted October 10, 2010 Share Posted October 10, 2010 I really think the whole idea of virginity is damaging to people. Link to post Share on other sites
tami-chan Posted October 10, 2010 Share Posted October 10, 2010 First, agree on the definition of of "sexual penetration". Then agree on what the role of the hymen is in the act of de-virginizing ( if at all there is). Then agree on the "tools" that are considered "de-virginizing". Are you virgin if you only used your fingers? a dildo? tongue? or anything other than penile penetration? Are you a virgin if your hymen is "intact"? what about those people whose imperforate (closed) hymen and doctors have to surgically open them? If a virgin is someone who has not had penile intercourse..then someone who has accommodated "just the tip" of the penis, is no longer a virgin. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Floridaman Posted October 10, 2010 Author Share Posted October 10, 2010 (edited) Every "just the tip" story I know of, the couple eventually slept together.QUOTE] I imagine that would be very true, given the compromising position.. Women are people, not vending machines for men's sexual pleasure. Of course. But it seems like just another game women will play in their teasing. "Just the tip.... No futher...." She should just let him in if she's letting him go that far. Men play games too but this one seems pretty pathetic. Edited October 10, 2010 by Floridaman Link to post Share on other sites
brainygirl Posted October 10, 2010 Share Posted October 10, 2010 Oh look, another woman bashing post "look how stupid and game-playing women are har har har" I've never heard of this "game". Link to post Share on other sites
tami-chan Posted October 10, 2010 Share Posted October 10, 2010 I imagine that would be very true, given the compromising position.. Of course. But it seems like just another game women will play in their teasing. "Just the tip.... No futher...." She should just let him in if she's letting him go that far. Men play games too but this one seems pretty pathetic. What is pathetic is you seem to think that the men participating in this game seem to have no choice to walk away and stop the game right then and there. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Floridaman Posted October 10, 2010 Author Share Posted October 10, 2010 (edited) Originally Posted by that girl Every "just the tip" story I know of, the couple eventually slept together ME I imagine that would be very true, given the compromising position.. Of course. But it seems like just another game women will play in their teasing. "Just the tip.... No futher...." She should just let him in if she's letting him go that far. Men play games too but this one seems pretty pathetic. What is pathetic is you seem to think that the men participating in this game seem to have no choice to walk away and stop the game right then and there. CLARIFICATION DEPT.: I didn't phrase my post well and regret saying that. I didn't mean many women do this to intentionally tease their guys. I personally think this "game" is a repugnant thing and don't consider myself a pick up artist always trying to take advantage of as many women as I can. I think some women let a guy so far and when he's aiming for target and getting close, she may get worried and say things like "the tip only..." I actually may have been in a situation like this where the woman, while doing other things with me naked, blocked me from completion. I think she let me rub up against her or let me just lightly "touch" her outside walls with my manhood, which according to the article, robbed her of her virginity. That I regret. I didn't think that was "going all the way" in, though it was clearly in the entry way! Then again, that was 20 years ago. I doubt as many women in similar situations would be so cautious today. Edited October 10, 2010 by Floridaman Link to post Share on other sites
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