Behrman Posted February 29, 2004 Share Posted February 29, 2004 A little background information... I was with a girl some months ago that I posted about and I was completely stupid during the relationship... we broke up and now I dont even talk to her. But, in that time, I became very good friends with my already close friend. She was going through the same things with her boyfriend, and we were there for each other the whole time. As of... about 4 months ago... she told me, flat out, she started to develop feelings for me. As scared as I was to admit it, I started developing feelings for her as well. But I didnt want to rush into anything, because of how my last relationship went. And this new girl has been a very good friend of mine for over a year... probably my best female friend. Well, I went ahead anyways and we became very close... it was ackward to adjust to, but it was all so great. So, now we are together and everything is amazing. Its been nearly 4 complete months and the biggest fight weve had is arguing about who is luckier. It just seems too good to be true... no fights, no nothing. But thats what im scared of, if it really is too good to be true. Im honestly scared to get attached more emotionally then I already am, because with my last girlfriend thats what I did and I got crushed, but I had my new girlfriend to help me. Now if something happens I dont even have her. Im scared to lose her as a friend, and Im a senior and shes a junior and Im scared to go off to college and lose her, I dont know how Im going to be able to handle it. I wish I could just spend the rest of my life with her but were only in high school and that just sounds ridiciouls... but Ive known her for a long time and never want to lose her. She just seems to make my life so much better. I guess the point of this post is just wondering if Im going about this right... I think I am, because Im following my heart... but just logically it seems like its going to end in mass amounts of pain for each of us. But I dont know that for a fact, I may end up going to school close to home. But if I do that Id be basing my life on her and if something happens when im at college I might have turned down a potentially better school for her... which Im not saying Im going to do, its just a thought. I dont know... Ive just got so many thoughts going around in my head... but I just wish that this relationship could last just like this... we still are young with lives ahead of us, and I dont want to lose her as a friend, but I dont want to give up this relationship. I dont know if this post is too coherent... but please make out of it what you can... any advice on the subject at all would be appericiated. Link to post Share on other sites
Helpme2004 Posted March 1, 2004 Share Posted March 1, 2004 If things are going good for the two of you let them.thats the chance you take in any relationship.I dated my best friend and it turned into a nightmare and we dont even talk anymore.everyone is different.good luck and be happy you found someone. Link to post Share on other sites
mstckh Posted March 10, 2004 Share Posted March 10, 2004 If it is ment to be it will happen. I have been there and still am. Follow your heart. Link to post Share on other sites
Trippitaka Posted March 11, 2004 Share Posted March 11, 2004 I agree with the above. Enjoy the moment and tackle each hurdle as it comes. If you think too far in advance then there's all sorts of problems you could read into any relationship. Link to post Share on other sites
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