Feeling worthless and incapable of being in a relationship

[ShannonMI]

Wow maybe we should all work on becoming extroverts perhaps future relationships will prevail if we over come this. I blame that because I am shy.

 

So so far we are all ex's to someone we love(d) and not dating a new, all introverts, and all have fathers who have cancer (bar mine as it has not developed yet but could) also all feel there is some sort of energy or power guiding us that we can't explain. Also all depressed (Only me is because of what I lost I never was so depressed I needed meds before I got some since the BU though) So much in common.

 

I've been living through threads on here too it's now wonder I became an established member so fast. I'm unsure it's healthy but seeing as I am an introvert spare time draws me here.

 

I've tried to be positive with every post but when I see others just starting to go through what I went through when the break up is fresh I have to be harsh and negative sometimes.

 

Too bad we all can't meet up due to everyones locations but we could make e-plans sometimes when we find ourselves bored. All rent the same movie and open up a chat and talk about it etc.

 

I mean it's at least we have each other type thing especially when the holiday season approaches.

 

As for you Funf that's sad someone would go the length to say they never really liked you, It's BS to be honest if someone doesn't like someone they don't get with them unless its one of those fraternity house pranks to deliberately hurt someone etc. Now he may have changed his feelings at one point but he had to have likes you in the first place.

I love LS so much, but I do think it's easy to get obsessed with it and that isn't a good thing. And it's sad to hear about all the heartbreaking stories. Sometimes I take a break from it. My posts on here have dropped off some. When I first got on LS, I was going crazy posting things and reading different stories. Now I try to take breaks. I still find myself coming back, though. I love this site and I'm glad I found it. I don't know how well I would have coped if I hadn't found it. Maybe the "higher power" has guided us here!

[Billie The Puppet]

I love LS so much, but I do think it's easy to get obsessed with it and that isn't a good thing. And it's sad to hear about all the heartbreaking stories. Sometimes I take a break from it. My posts on here have dropped off some. When I first got on LS, I was going crazy posting things and reading different stories. Now I try to take breaks. I still find myself coming back, though. I love this site and I'm glad I found it. I don't know how well I would have coped if I hadn't found it. Maybe the "higher power" has guided us here!

 

So the higher power has a name it's Google

 

Just don't go to loveshack.com it's a different type of coping site mostly for men

 

 

I've been in a posting frenzy but hope I follow the same suit as you.

[ShannonMI]

So the higher power has a name it's Google

 

Just don't go to loveshack.com it's a different type of coping site mostly for men

 

 

I've been in a posting frenzy but hope I follow the same suit as you.

You will eventually. It's been 5 months since my breakup. It's only been a few for you, right? Don't beat yourself up too badly over it. If it helps make you feel better, post to your heart's content! You give good advice and you are helping people as well as getting help for yourself. That's how I look at it and that's awesome!

[Billie The Puppet]

You will eventually. It's been 5 months since my breakup. It's only been a few for you, right? Don't beat yourself up too badly over it. If it helps make you feel better, post to your heart's content! You give good advice and you are helping people as well as getting help for yourself. That's how I look at it and that's awesome!

 

I joined Sept was broken up with at end of July (26th). So it's nearing 3 months.

Giving advice is easier than taking it. I just wish I found this place sooner before doing some acts I did that may have caused the BU but well the higher power didn't want that. I guess we believe in Destiny than.

 

If one cheats it's not our fault it's theirs for not caring enough to end it before moving on. I won't be a victim I wont beat myself up over this however I still can't help but miss the past. get by the present and hope for a great future.

 

Plus being here you start to get to know certain members we are not alone at being lonely.

[ShannonMI]

I joined Sept was broken up with at end of July (26th). So it's nearing 3 months.

Giving advice is easier than taking it. I just wish I found this place sooner before doing some acts I did that may have caused the BU but well the higher power didn't want that. I guess we believe in Destiny than.

 

If one cheats it's not our fault it's theirs for not caring enough to end it before moving on. I won't be a victim I wont beat myself up over this however I still can't help but miss the past. get by the present and hope for a great future.

 

Plus being here you start to get to know certain members we are not alone at being lonely.

Nope we aren't alone. We are all going through the same thing and there is great comfort in that. I agree that giving advice is easier then taking it. I give advice that I sometimes don't follow myself. But it does make me feel good if I can help people:)