CarlaDowell Posted October 13, 2010 Posted October 13, 2010 I have a crush on a colleague and our relationship shifts from friendly where we talk about sports, families, etc. to very serious where he hardly cracks a smile when we meet about work related issues. I don't know how to read him- I think he is attracted to me, but then he switches again. I try to keep the tone light and flirty between us, but sometimes he just doesn't react. Other times, he is clearly into me. (by the way, we are both married.... I know- but don't want a lecture on morality!) What can I do to loosen him up and explore options for a deeper friendship or affair?
Idalis Posted October 15, 2010 Posted October 15, 2010 guys don't usually need much encouragement, IMO. Especially in the workplace.. I see more work romances than melrose place, and I get asked out by more guys at work than anywhere else. If he's not reacting to your flirtations, as you state, then he's probably not wanting to loosen up with you. From your chats about family have you gathered that maybe he's happily married??
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