jhonny77 Posted March 1, 2004 Share Posted March 1, 2004 hi - o.k., the first words i stated when coming into this house was "don't screw the crew". I have lived with female roommates for the past 3 years and never really been attracted to any of them so it was never a problem...I have been living in this current house for 4 months, and over the last three months I have developed very strong feelings for one of my roommates, we'll say Sarah. First of all Sarah is a huge FLIRT, so within a week we were flirting just about every day.. We were getting along great, and one thing lead to another and we started sleeping together. This went on for about 5 days before we were caught in the act by another roommate. This prompted Sarah to stop everything, and now she won't even let me kiss her. I told here that I have developed very strong feelings for her, and that I wanted to try and work something out. She said "NO" it would be too hard living together, and we should just be friends for now, and possibly her feelings could grow for me later, but as of now only "40%" wants to be with me, and the rest wants to be single and date other people. Anyhow I can't stand living with her and seeing her everyday without being close with her. She still wants to hang out like friends, and pretend nothing ever happened between us. so I have decided to move out, hoping that this infatuatuion, or whatever it is will pass, or possibly start our relationship up again later.Any advice on the situation would be greatly appreciated. Thanks Jhonny Link to post Share on other sites
Arabess Posted March 1, 2004 Share Posted March 1, 2004 When is the lease up? If you are serious about this relationship, that may be a good time to move out and persue your feelings for her. If she is only interested at a 40% level at this time.....she may or may not change her feelings later. Link to post Share on other sites
Helpme2004 Posted March 1, 2004 Share Posted March 1, 2004 I agree if you have a lease when its up then move out it shouldnt matter if another room mate found out she should wanna be with you reguardless if someone else knows doesnt matter what others think.if she really likes you then shell be with you. good luck Link to post Share on other sites
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