LoveAngel Posted December 2, 1998 Share Posted December 2, 1998 Please give me some advice: I've been involved with my boyfriend for a year and a half. He is always being told rumors regarding my faithfulness to him. Whether I've kissed some guy or actually have ANOTHER boyfriend! Never had I heard anything about his ways until last night... What is this supposed to mean? Are you cheating on him? *Rakel said he got her phone number, they kissed, and he wanted to fu## her on the side because he already had a girlfriend.(this is so unlike my boyfriend-he has never cheated on a girl before & he's my bestfriend) I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO! I called Mary this morning to find out the story from her. At 3:00 today she is going to talk to Rakel and find out exactly what happened--dates and all. My boyfriend and I have the best relationship-Rakel doesn't even fit the description of girls he finds attractive-- I just don't get it????? If Rakel tells Mary stuff did happen-- SHOULDN'T I CALL HER WITH MY BOYFRIEND ON THE LINE TO FIND OUT WHAT'S GOING ON?? And the thing is, I see my boyfriend every day-I even go to a lot of his classes and sit in-- he even spends the night 4 days out of the week---when I page, he always calls back---I just don't get it---What do I do???????? Here's a thought. In all your dectective work (dates and all) did you ever once think to talk to your boyfriend and, oh gee.. I dunno. ASK HIM? You trust a complete stranger over a person you supposedly cared about for a year and a half? I'd suggest seriously considering the seriousness of this relationship and start examining how you trust and communicate with others. Your message shows a lot of personal downfalls in those areas. For example, getting someone to reply here does not require the use of bolded-capital-screaming letters nor does it require giving a reader guilt trips. It makes your posting look like a poorly written, teenage fraudulant chain letter. Regards, LoveAngel Link to post Share on other sites
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