LostinVA Posted March 1, 2004 Share Posted March 1, 2004 Last Monday my fiance asked me to leave her and her sons to go live with my dad. This all stemmed from some money I owed an old roomate when I was low in depression about 6 months ago. I didn't tell her he had come by looking for the money, and when he showed up when she was there she lost it. She knows him, and knows he wouldn't hurt her children. When he left though she told me I could have endangered the kids and wanted me out. She has since said she still loves me, and down the road when I work through my issues that we can see if it will work. I have tried not to call her, but she calls me asking favors and things like that, but if I bring up sitting down and talking she wants nothing to do with it. I truly love her in a way I have never felt before and I don't want to fool myself into thinking she will be there when I do get through my issues. Am I stupid for holding on to hope? Link to post Share on other sites
scorpion123 Posted March 1, 2004 Share Posted March 1, 2004 Try not to bother her so much...leave her alone. Live your life and try to contact her perhaps a few month later...maybe she need some thinking space Link to post Share on other sites
sinkerswim Posted March 1, 2004 Share Posted March 1, 2004 There is NOTHING wrong with faith and hope..it helps you get through some days. I am going through an extremely hard time myself right now and I have to keep faith. My therapist told me to focus on the positive instead of the negative. Oh...its hard believe me. Right now I just feel like crying. Link to post Share on other sites
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