I really dont know what to think?

[summerl0vesyou]

Background...again.

Ex and I have been broken up officially since december last year, but broke it off for good in april. havent seen him since then.

he tried to be my friend, i told him not until were both over it. he begged.

I ended up saying i like someone else/seeing someone else, and he disappeared. I tried to contact him a few weeks later and he was not very nice. the same thing happened a few more times over the next few months.

Thats what happened before. he was always telling me to move on, and that he basically didnt want me to contact him. I told him I loved him still, and I was upset and would text him and hed get mad at me.

then i had to contact him about a legal thing were both involved in, starting this september. one time, i told him that I worry about things even if I cant control them and he said he knew, cuz he knows me.

 

So I got mad and said "did we really know each other?" and he said legal conversation only. His foot is down, and things arent the way they used to be. He said he had to get up early to study and i asked what class hes in, and he got really pissed off and said that he refused to talk about anything non-legal. he was being a complete jerk.

(So i should get over him, I know, I know.)

 

NOW...

I called him last friday, for the first time. I left him a voicemail, that I had new details about the lawsuit against me (he was my passenger in a bad car accident.) he called me back, and we spoke for the first time in 6 mths.

Sunday, 3 weeks after the legal crap only statement (Which, btw, anytime Ive talked to him the last 6 mths, it was initiated by me.) He instant messaged me online asking if i had any more legal questions. So i talked about that for a minute. then he started asking me about school. we talked about both of our lives- work, school, pets. the mundane. but for the first time, he said some things to try and comfort me. he said he was sorry that everything has to suck for me in the process, and that he is going to worry about me and the legal thing, and that hes been praying for me.

 

So, whatever. I figured if he didnt say anything again, id just forget about it.

 

That was last Sunday. Tonight he texted me and asked if anything new has happened with the lawsuit. So...I said no. Then he apologized for asking and said he was asking cuz of something that happened to him yesterday. Okay?? Yeah. So I asked him what happened and if hes ok, and he described it to me. Then I asked why he said sorry for asking....and he never replied.

 

What the heck man??? I feel he used it as an excuse to talk to me. Its a bit weird that hes checking in on me all of a sudden. Did hearing my voice trigger this? Why wouldnt he reply? its all very odd.

Edited October 17, 2010 by summerl0vesyou