ItsAllGoodAgain Posted October 18, 2010 Share Posted October 18, 2010 I've posted recently regarding my current situation. If you would care to indulge you can read my last post before this titled "I want to believe her..." After reading you may think I'm the classic doormat, niave and whimpy bf who would let his girl walk all over him. To be honest, I was well on my way to being just that. Long story short, I cut that rope and started moving on with my life. However, and this may seem like a WTF question, but I'd like some opinions. The other night (the finale), I met her and one of her girlfriends out late for a few drinks. I showed up about 10 minutes before closing. They were drunk and having a good time as usuall, which usually consists of suckering other guys into paying for thier drinks. One of the guys was not pleased to see my gf's boyfriend show up and gave her a sad face and left. As we were headed out the bar tender yelled to my gf, "I need some help with my student loans, can I get your # so I can call you?" My gf and I work together. I shouted out, "just call your servicer and they should be able to help?" She told me he was nervous and really wanted her help so she started to give him her #. Her personal cell #. I told her just give him your work # and have him call you next week. She got upset and went ahead and gave him her cell #. I was pissed. In the car she said it was for work and I was being rediculous and insecure. Was I wrong for questioning the act and being that insecure? I told her she was being disrespectful and she always has been. After a while of some intense arguing about this situation and every situation in the past and how unwilling she is to see anothers point of view and how I just can't drop issues and let them go she got so frustrated she accually decked me. Right jab to the lip. That was it for me. She has no self control. She has no respect. She's a liar and a cheater. Not to mention abusive. Its over. She doesn't deserve me. I'm not the jealous type. I'm not the angry type. I am honest and true to my mate. I respected her for who she was and was always there for her. Is it wrong to expect the same from her? She's not good for me. We really were catalysts to eachothers craziness. I think my problem is my love finder is off. I guess my question kind of turned into a rant... Link to post Share on other sites
Shindig Posted November 1, 2010 Share Posted November 1, 2010 It sounds like you answered your own questions. She definitely doesn't deserve you. Link to post Share on other sites
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