M Posted July 31, 2000 Share Posted July 31, 2000 I have been with my GF for 4 months, and couple of days ago we had our first opportunity to have sex. However, after she gave me oral sex, i could not get aroused for the second time. Actually I did after a while, however, it did not go right, so anyhow we just stopped at giving each other oral. Now, usually with my previous GF, I would not allow myself to orgasm thru Oral, i would use it for stimulation, and the same I would do to her, and then we would both go all the way thru intercourse, But with my current i just let it go, and then maybe i started fearing that i would not get aroused for the second time, plus we had time restrictions, and it was late at night, so felt little sleepy, so now I am wandering is something wrong with me,,,,My question what do I do next time, maybe i should just not allow myself to orgasm from oral in the beginning, and since it was our first time, maybe i was fearing that things would not go as nice as i have imagined,,,,SHe tald me to just let it go, and dont think about it, and concentrate on nice parts, I know I am not an impotent, cause i get aroused fairly easy, even when i just touch her or kiss her, but there maybe i got myself screwed up in mind little bit, like someitmes when u run things over and over in your head before certaing thing is to take place, and when the actual thing happens,and if it goes slightly diffferently, you get somewhat disappointed. Maybe i was overwhelmed all of a sudden, cause in 4 months I would just get kisses, and then one day, we had a foam bath together, so i was like in heaven, too good to be true,,,,and we have very romantic setting, candles, and champagne and all that,,,,,but at some point i lost it.....so please let me know how do I get over it, and how should we go about it next time???? thank you,,, i was little concerned about it Link to post Share on other sites
Tony T Posted July 31, 2000 Share Posted July 31, 2000 You worry way too much. Let your lovemaking proceed naturally each time. It sounds like you have a very understanding and kind partner. Over a period of time the two of you will discover the best way to proceed so each of you are happy and fulfilled. Be thankful you're with such a great lady!!! And stop worrying!!! Link to post Share on other sites
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