Something that your partner does that drives you nuts

[BlackLovely]

There's a difference between politely "passing gas" and making a BFD out of it every single time one "passes gas". If you wouldn't stand up and go fart in your buddy's dog's face, or ask your mom to pull your finger (and then your middle finger and then your ring finger and then your little finger...), then you probably shouldn't do that crap in front of the person you are romantically involved with either.

 

Wow. That all sounds extreme and gross. My apologies.

[ReturnToSender]

While curled up on the couch, my ex would tap his fingers on my thigh as if hes playing the piano...I liked it and miss that Apparently his dad who is also a musician does that to his step-mom but she complains about how it drives her nuts lol!

 

Something he does that really does annoy me though is, we'll make plans to meet on Sat for instance, and say I'll be there between 1-2, but Ill call you to let you know for sure. Come noon he'll send me a text "Im almost there! See you soon!" and Im doing mad dash panic to run in and out of the shower and do my hair before he gets here.

 

Once while we were still dating, I decided maybe hes being cheeky and hoping to catch me in the shower or something LoL! So I purposely replied saying, ok Ill probably be in the shower, let yourself in! Yeah, he was on the couch waiting for me when I got out of the shower...no sneaking in or anything *sigh*

 

Its been over 3 years and no matter how many times Ive asked him to give me a real heads up, he still only sends me a text when hes already on his way over...argh!

[goingstrong]

She has the conversational skills of a pile of laundry.

[ReturnToSender]

She has the conversational skills of a pile of laundry.

 

I literally laughed out loud! Sorry to hear shes like that! , but your anaolgy is hilarious

[StandingO]

A pile of laundry. That was funny.

[waynebrady]

When Im kissing my girlfriend, she turns her face and makes me stop kissing her. I get really frustrated and I dont know what to do. Any ideas??

 

Women in general do not like kissing... You have to understand that women are not fans of physical intimacy

[carhill]

Though definitely not marriage breakers, if I had to pick three, they would be, in no particular order:

 

1. Always rushing at the last minute, being late and taking out the frustrations on me.

 

2. Leaving a pile of shoes in the middle of the room

 

3. Taking a dump with the bathroom door open. There's no better way to get me into the mood for sex than listening to a woman push out a loaf and then smell it

 

Now, aren't you glad you asked?

[LisaLee]

 

3. Taking a dump with the bathroom door open. There's no better way to get me into the mood for sex than listening to a woman push out a loaf and then smell it

 

Now, aren't you glad you asked?

 

Oh, God. My ex used to do that... stink up the bathroom really bad, and then laugh and holler about it from the toilet.

 

I'm grateful that my SO is such a prude he won't even pee in front of me.

[carhill]

In my exW's defense, she grew up with three brothers and let's just say the boundaries of decorum were a little 'fuzzy' at her house. After I brought it to her attention, she was pretty responsive. Heck, prior, walking in on her didn't phase her..... 'Hey, while you're in here can you get me some more toilet paper?'.....

 

Like I said, none were marriage-breakers; had we remained married, they would have become funny stories to share decades down the road. She could tell stories about me having to make up the bed and wash all the dishes before we went on trips, etc. etc.... we all have our 'stuff'.

[Posshgal]

I hate it when I say goodnight and he replys with bye.

[reservoirdog1]

Something that your partner does that drives you nuts

Wears clothes too often.

 

I brought this up with her and she said she'd try to cut down on that.

[karaann07]

I hate it when I say goodnight and he replys with bye.

That is so weird! What's up with that? That would make me crazy, too. I hate when my husband calls me from work and then spends the next three minutes saying hello to everyone he passes in the hallway. JUST WAIT TO CALL ME, THEN! Sheesh! I don't care to spend any of my day holding children in one arm, laundry in the other and a phone squeezed against my cheek and shoulder just to hear you greet your coworkers!

[karaann07]

When Im kissing my girlfriend, she turns her face and makes me stop kissing her. I get really frustrated and I dont know what to do. Any ideas??

 

I would venture to say that it's most likely your style. If you're going all out, tongueing her face, then you might want to bring it down a notch or 7. If you're going all slow and romantic, then maybe you should try revving it up. My guess is that she's feeling the kiss is a bit too sloppy. Sloppy kisses are gross, no matter how much you love someone!

[tinktronik]

Snoring and he does this thing where he snaps his nails, click, click, click, click... Drives me nuts!

 

He runs red lights. If I say "would you please not run anymore red lights" he says "do you want to drive". I tell him "sure I'll drive if you want to walk."

[threebyfate]

He's an excellent driver but drives too fast and a little too aggressively in the city. Never thought I would ever say that about anyone considering my own lead foot and impatience.

 

At least there's take home for me when being the designated driver. I get to drive.

[Posshgal]

That is so weird! What's up with that? That would make me crazy, too. I hate when my husband calls me from work and then spends the next three minutes saying hello to everyone he passes in the hallway. JUST WAIT TO CALL ME, THEN! Sheesh! I don't care to spend any of my day holding children in one arm, laundry in the other and a phone squeezed against my cheek and shoulder just to hear you greet your coworkers!

my boyfriend does the same kinda thing when we are walking around tesco and im trying to talk to him he will just stop and talk to people working in there and then turn around to me and say sorry was you saying something....NO ITS FINE!!

lol he really does my head in sometime. have to ask myself you im still with him :/

[LucreziaBorgia]

I'm adding:

 

procrastination, even with very important things

empty promises

making excuses

inability to do anything on his own

blame shifting

emotional manipulation

 

... and so on.

 

Which is why he is no longer my partner.

[karaann07]

I also can't stand when my husband lets his fingernails get too long. It is sooooo grossss. And THEN, when he DOES cut them, he will leave all the clippings in a pile on the counter. ???? PLEASE EXPLAIN THAT? How do you take the time to scoop them up into a little pile, but not throw them away?! EW!

[paleblue]

The #1 thing that drives me insane is Snoring. It drives me ape sh**. If my girl Snores and I cant get a good nights sleep, it might just be a deal breaker. Other than that I can put up with a lot.

[nycgirl6]

Four twenty

[renogirl4]

I hate it when I say goodnight and he replys with bye.

 

 

That is hilarious!! And weird....

[SouthernSunshine]

Everything is a debate, and he always has to be right. He has a very annoying fake ass laugh when he's nervous. It's like pulling teeth to get him away from the computer.. oh and he puts the new toilet paper roll ON TOP of the holder instead of in it.