wierdmunky Posted October 27, 2010 Share Posted October 27, 2010 Whats a good way to think when your that scared of dating, and want to get back into the dating pool without scaring yourself half to death, but still maintaining successful dating experiences as in just enjoying the moment and not worrying if things will "work out"? I just finished my being single for a year stage, and am opening up to dating again, but am a little freaked out by it. I think dating should be fairly easy and fun, but there's always a little anxiety and nervousness. So, how do u get rid of that feeling and feeling too over-excited about it?? Link to post Share on other sites
luvtoto Posted October 27, 2010 Share Posted October 27, 2010 When I started dating, my anxiety came from just not understanding the opposite sex...AT ALL. lol! When I don't understand something, I read and research the subject. I ran across this book. It's called "How To Become A Guy Magnet" by James Scott. Since buying this book, I've put it on my ipod. It has so much useful information that I need to listen to it over and over again while out walking. Now, I have a completely different outlook when it comes to men. Don't feel so nervous about dating anymore. Also, I feel like I know how to handle most situations around men. How to build attraction. How to keep them interested. How to tell if a guy is sincere or lying. How to handle rejection. AWESOME BOOK!! HIGHLY RECOMMEND to any woman out in the dating world. Yes, I am a valid member of Loveshack. This is not spam. I've posted on this forum for years. Link to post Share on other sites
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